Does anyone else feel this way?

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Let me lay down some background information. I am 17 yr old girl and attractive. I'm not trying to boast. I like to show off my curves as most girls my age do. But I work at a health club sort of deal so the expected uniform (depending on the day and what you are doing) can be anything from a polo shirt and khakis to workout clothes to a swimsuit.

The members of the club are generally men in their 40s to 50s and 60s. The majority are 50s I would say with some as old as 70s and very few as young as 30ish. As a worker you are supposed to get to know everyone by name and I have as I have worked there for 2 years now.

It is common that a lot of these guys (there are women there too) have bought me lunches and things like that. But whenever I am around MOST of these guys especially the older ones, I can't help but feel like they are undressing me with their eyes. This doesn't happen as much when I work at the front desk with my polo and pants but whenever I am wearing my workout clothes (yoga pants) or swimsuit (bikini).

A lot of them make comments or do things too that can be uncomfortable for me too. I think they do it because most of them have a lot of money and feel like they can get away with it or because they think being a member allows for certain privileges. They will make comments from as disguised as "I'll take you for a ride in my car anytime" to outright weird things like "If my wife had your ass, I would plow her every night." Some of the more "outgoing" ones have even touched me by grazing my boobs or grabbing my ass. This typically happens when I am working out, walking by or in the pool.

I have told my boss but she just says that is old farts being horny because they are sick of their wives.

To sum it up though, and I am sorry for complaining on here so long, I once heard some comedian on TV say how he would hate to be a young hot girl as he feels bad at how they must imagine loads upon loads of cum being sprayed upon to their faces from all these dirty older men. It is funny I heard this because I can be talking with a member at lunch or at the pool or wherever and even though I am looking right at him, he will be looking elsewhere at me before quickly looking back up at me and I feel like I CAN feel their imaginary load hitting me because of the way they act.

So I just wanted to hear whether or not any other girls have had this happen to them or whether or not this is normal snd what other people think. Does anyone other girls imagine these guys blowing loads or having sex with you?

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Theres alot of sick guys out there. Maybe try covering up more when you work.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    If you are "showing off" as you say, then aren't you kind of expecting to get that sort of attention?

    It might be your workplace that's the problem. I've worked in a couple of gyms myself, so I have a bit of experience in that respect. Classier fitness clubs normally have a more professional dress code for their employees and, that way, members don't mistake the employees for prostitutes. You might want to find a different gym to work at. :/

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  • mlbryan44
    10 years ago

    Do you ever suck any of the old guys off?

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  • Grapist
    10 years ago

    That's kind of the point of jobs like this. It's common knowledge you have to pleasure the patrons. It's kind of an unwritten rule though

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    the gym sounds sleazy

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  • dom180
    10 years ago

    I don't think dressing how you do entitles them to make inappropriate comments or touch you without being invited. Whether it would work or not, you shouldn't have to stop dressing how you want to avoid being harassed. Your boss's flippant attitude is a problem too. Quitting the job sounds like the best option.

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  • ChrissySnow
    3 years ago

    Before I lost my figure it was yes and yes

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  • Anime7
    10 years ago

    I have to sort of agree with other people, it seems like the dress code is the problem. I mean in all honesty if I saw a pretty girl or just "average" looking standing in front of me wearing a bikini then honestly I would probably glance at them and my voyeuristic instincts would kick in. I swear I would not try to make you feel like any less of a person, but it would be hard to not notice your body in a swimsuit. I honestly think that anybody would have a hard time trying to not look creepy if a pretty girl is standing in front of them wearing practically their undergarments. I'm sure that women notice your amazing body when you walk by as well, but men are probably the ones who vocalize their amazement. Now I'm not saying it's your fault or anything, you're just doing your job, but wearing a swimsuit is pretty damn revealing and as a result fling some unwanted attention your way.

    Think of the opposite situation, a clothing store where they have male models walking around shirtless and helping you make purchases. Tell me that you would not stare or try to sneak a peak at this guy's chiseled body. The guy is just doing his job, and his uniform (or lack thereof) pretty much reveals a lot of skin.

    Honestly I would recommend finding employment somewhere else because I really don't see this problem going away.

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