Do you want to have kids?

Yes, I definitely want kids someday 330
I wanted kids and I now I have them :) 75
I didn't want kids, but I have them now. 79
No, I definitely don't want kids. 237
I don't know yet 147
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  • idon'tknow

    Never.

    And I've been given shit over not wanting to have kids - not from my parents thankfully, but sometimes from family friends, and especially from school. I got people bugging me in high school - at age 16! - that I should have kids. As if I should automatically want to have kids because I have a vagina. Stupid societal pressure and bullshit. I don't even like children, and I can't think of a single reason why I would WANT to have children. I'm definitely not in a position to think about having children right now, but I'm sick of certain people telling me that I'll change my mind.

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    • whodoneit

      you should have your tubes tied, now. (you can untie them later if you change your mind.)

      kids are not fun, you don't want them. they ruin your life.

      some charities will pay you to be "fixed".

      really. accidents happen.

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    • theonewiththehair

      I completely agree with you. Its one thing for a man to not want kids, but people always find it shocking to meet a woman who doesn't want them!

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  • elduke

    First of all, I don't like kids.

    Secondly, I had a horrible childhood myself.

    Thirdly, I don't generally like the world and don't feel like it's my right to inflict it's ever-increasing horrors on someone else.

    Sorry to sound dramatic/fatalistic, but there it is.

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    • Echoes

      Very deep!

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    • theYaoilover

      diddo

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    • SolenmSerpent

      Agreed.

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    • purple1498

      You must be my long lost twin o.o

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  • FiveFraction

    I certainly don't want kids. Reasons of why i don't want kids are that they get real annoying as they grow older, and they spend a lot of money :p, i know that because I do that too. :P

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  • Echoes

    I'm not sure if I wanna have any, raising kids is a tremendous responsibility, I'm not talking money here.

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  • disthing

    "I didn't want kids, but I have them now."

    5 people. Ouch.

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  • Kids are NASTY

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    • and btw YES i was also...

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  • Skylight97208

    Although I think that kids are the next generation to our country's future success, I don't think I want kids. It's to much of a responsibility and just thinking about the delivery is ............... disturbing. And not to mention looking very painful.

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  • NOWAY!!!

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  • MahBoi24

    HELL FUCKIN NO!

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  • enginelugger

    Raising kids is a big responsibility, even if you adore kids. But as they become mature adults around the age of 25 to 35 depending on their maturity, is well worth the pay off when raising them right.....

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  • NO NAY NEVER. I hate kids, can't stand marriage and not extremely fond of women as a long term partner. I've been thinking about vasectomy, but then i might become reckless about condoms and my parents wouldn't take it kindly, they still harbor some hopes for me to become a dad someday.

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  • horsepower101

    I have 3 friends that are teen moms and they say it's difficult so I am waiting until I am married.

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  • bigwigg

    life every time goes from worse to worst.and it gets from hard to harder.and sometimes the one wish if he did not exist and sometimes chooses to die or even ask himself 'why am i suppose to live?'.i don't think the one -one like me- can love to get kids in such a life like that.just feel lucky if u have a lovely woman,love her so much and make her ur baby coz she did not choose also to exist.

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  • anarchy-is-glory

    loveeeeeeeeeeeee kidsssssssssss!!

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  • dappled

    The only reason any of us exist is because someone wanted to have kids.

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    • tortybum

      Most of us exist because of alcohol

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      • ladyluck31

        You are soo rite.... bad decisions there!

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      • pandabear1209

        Haha so true

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    • theonewiththehair

      Not necessarily, I'm afraid...

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    • disthing

      Yeah I'm trying to remember the last time someone said their parents "planned" to have them...

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  • Jeci_Cassidy

    I'm working on my first child as we speak lol. I have 8 weeks left until my son gets here ^_^ me and my husband are happy ^_^

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  • ebonimoore

    Black girl here: White people, your population is falling off. Breed!

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  • greenpenguin13

    i definately want kids soon but my sister is so weird !!!! she has six kids !!! i dont know how she does it !!!!!

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  • zerogod1989

    i could really go for a kid right now

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  • GuvnorsOtherWoman

    Don't want them, don't like them. Decided at the age of 8 I didn't want them and never changed my mind.

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  • JakeS

    I definitely want to be a dad someday

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  • Riker300

    Though I love my kiddos to bits I miss not having the ultimate responsibility. Perhaps I just wish I did not have kids with the woman I had them with. Parenting is an outrageously expensive endeavor and the rewards really ain't great. It truly is a set up.

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  • woowoowoowoo

    I may just be weird, but I absolutely hate children. Whenever I see those little shits I feel like kicking them in the head would be a fun thing to do!
    Obviously there is something very wrong with that, and I'm pretty sure I would be abusive if I ever had children and that's really something I wouldn't want anyone to go through. I'm so glad I'm asexual, so there is no risk of ever becoming such a terrible person in real life....

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    • woowoowoowoo

      Abusive as in shouting, etc not in any other way!
      I shouldn't make this sound worse than it is lol

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  • drumandpickchick

    We've been trying for 5 years and now the warm ootsey cutesy 'we want kids' feelings are gone. I 've been sad, annoyed, angry, jealous...I hate roller coaster rides. No kids for us. We'll enjoy motorcycle riding and recreational flying with no kids attatched. I'll visit my nieces and newphews if I want kids for a day.

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  • Monster93

    I dont understand how alot of girls always say I Never want Kids. Again just saying its not always completely up to them and accidents can happen lol. But you shouldnt think that because if something does happen you dont wanna be thinking 'I never wanted this kid' And as for me yeah id like a kid or two to continue on my family name and just for the experience.

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    • theonewiththehair

      What do you mean its not always up to them? Women always have a choice and no one should tell them any different.

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      • Monster93

        Im saying as its not always up to them because "Mistakes" Happen. If you must know i can tell you i wasnt planned, i was a mistake and im sure when my mother first found out she was prego with me she was disappointed and didnt want me. So its not always up to either the male or female cause if it was i would prob know my real father right now but i dont.

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        • theonewiththehair

          I'm fully aware of what a mistake is, I wasn't planned either. My mother found out she was pregnant and then made a choice, yours did too. Women always have a choice.

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  • germima8910

    if u want woman...

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  • amunet

    i want have kids and always thought bout having another but i cant conceive anymore and im inly 24

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  • gir11

    I want kids for sure, if I had the money and patience to raise six or seven I probably would.

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  • b454

    I have one. She's 10. I wanted another for years but we aren't exactly financially stable right now. I don't think I'll be having any more now. I'm almost 31 and I don't want to be much older than that having kids. Its ok. My daughter is awesome and she's all I need :)

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  • naturalme

    yes i want to have a kid now coz i want to keep my boyfriend lol

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    • Great reason to have kids....

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    • drumandpickchick

      LOL Oh my!

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