Do you think this article is accurate?

I heard from one of my friends that science has shown that the sexes of your siblings and your birth order affect things that matter later in life like your personality. As the youngest of three brothers and sometimes feeling like I lost the lottery because of it, I was interested enough in the idea to look for info online. I found an article that details how your birth order can supposedly affect your love life. I don't think article is really the right word because the site it's on is weird but you know what I mean.

I almost ignored it because it was on a site with links to spirituality poppycock, so I was expecting it to be just as fake and meaningless as astrological signs. But I gave it a read anyway and had another think. It explains its claims in ways that seem plausible, and even though it doesn't provide any links to psychological science studies or any other reputable source, and it's followed by links to silly articles about how yoga will allow you to have sex with someone's soul while aging in reverse, its claims seem logical enough. Claims like older siblings wanting to be in control or that children with siblings of the opposite sex understand the opposite sex better certainly pass the sniff test.

But I'm not convinced it's wholly correct and that some of the details aren't just flat out wrong. Mostly, I think it might be exaggerating the effects birth order has on personality. I'm not as unpredictable and adventurous as it says a younger brother of brothers should be. It seems to suggest that the best group of siblings is a firstborn brother with a younger sister, with the boy fawning over and protecting his little sister while she charms and empathizes with him, which sounds a bit too much like romanticized fiction to me. Maybe it's just me, but both the big brother-little sister pairs I know are both jerks, to each other and everyone I know. But I want to see what other people here would say. Try to ignore the site's weirdness and focus on the words. The article is at http://www.lexiyoga.com/birth-order-can-predict-romantic-compatibility

The article is spot on 2
The concept is correct but the some of the details are off 10
The concept is vaguely true but not as strict as the article implies 11
The whole thing is completely bunk 12
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Comments ( 10 )
  • dom180

    Order of birth often affects social skills, work ethic etc., so I can't see why if wouldn't have some impact on anything else. It is very loose though, not hard and fast at all.

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  • icup3

    Im the oldest sister of 9 siblings 4 brothers and 5 sisters,im not a leader or any of the things it described so i dont think its that accurate.

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  • Darkoil

    Social sciences, haha absolute horseshit.

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  • dappled

    I feel very strongly that birth order and the gender of your siblings can affect your personality. Note the word "affect", though. Rather than "determine".

    For info, I'm the eldest of three and my family goes boy girl boy.

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  • searchingnow

    It's fucking bullshit. Everyone's life is different.

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  • tentacleTherapist

    Yeah, my little brother and I are cool sometimes. I really do care about him deep down - when he broke his arm on the playground I cried pretty hard. Just thinking about what he;d been through and all.

    I do think of him, but he pisses me off SO MUCH because he hangs out with shitty people!! Still deep down I love him, and I LOVE telling him about what I've done (the schools I used to go to, my experiences, etc.) and I can't wait til he's old enough for me to tell him all that I know.

    And yes, I tell him how to pick up 'hot chicks' all the time...he's 7. Better to teach them young!

    "See any cute girls?"
    "Yyyeaah..."
    "Do you like her?"
    -shrug- "I guess."
    "Hold the door open for her, and be extra nice."
    "Why?"
    "BECAUSE SHE'LL THINK YOU'RE CUTE THAT'S WHY."

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  • skyeracrystal28

    I think you're just born who you are. You have your own passions, dreams, likes and dislikes...just live life and go for what you want. Don't let anything hold you back not even what some article says.

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  • joybird

    haha. I liked that!

    100% accurate as I'm the firstborn of sisters and I married the youngest brother of sisters 22 years ago and we complement each other entirely. No other relationship worked out with different men.

    I think at times my husband rolls his eyes thinking 'bloody women' and I think 'bloody child' about him. Just coz of our own experiences when growing up.

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  • SoccerStud88

    too much to read, pass.

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  • Yeah I'm about 1,5 years older than my sister and in our childhood she was a f*cking whore and so annoying sometimes... but all in all she is a good sister^^ And I think the whole article is bullshit and has nothing to do with your life!

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