Do you think these are signs of sexual tension ?

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I met her about 4x at a lesbian meet up, I have strong urges to touch, grab and hug her but resist for certain reasons. She is beautiful and out of my league not to mention she is the admin and host of this small lesbian group she created so spends her time chatting to everyone in this group who comes along. First day we met, we were at a LGBT music festival. I sat next to her and was fanning her with this cardboard thing as it were a very hot day. She went to take it out of my hand and said "here I'll do you" then she quickly said "Oh that doesnt sound right". I just laughed. Later we were crossing the road on the way back to find my car, and I was lagging behind, she went to take my hand as a car was coming and instead placed her hand on my arm and apologized. I am naive and ignorant when it comes to signs and flirting. Are these signs of sexual tension between us? Hard to gauge as she is the overly polite and friendly type towards everyone..

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[Old Memory]

4 years ago

You have already posted this a few months back.

Did you not get replies?

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  No I didn't
  
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  - [Old Memory]
    
    4 years ago
    
    Well there is exactly the same post out there, word for word probably
    
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Ellenna

4 years ago

Hmmm .... I'm bi now but was exclusively Lesbian for many years and one dyke I knew used to joke that we were all going to end up with kidney problems in years to come, from sitting around kitchen tables having yet another cuppa and both women waiting for the other to make the first move.

I suggest you up the ante of the obvious friendship slightly by giving her a quick hug and check out her reaction. I assume you've checked that she's not already in a relationship?

And hey listen, I'm 72 and I'm STILL naive about signs of sexual tension and flirting, although I can flirt once I'm in a relationship, male or female. I'm inclined to not notice when people are attracted to me or think they are when they're not.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  4 years ago
  
  Hahha ah yes I am aware that women are generally too shy to make a first move (Kinda cute as opposed to men who are usually too full on). Ah your 72 wow, that's so cool and that you're openly bi which is amazing considering it were more frowned upon back in your day. Ah yeah so hard to tell re the flirting and sexual tension:/
  We have hugged but shes also hugged others
  
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  - Ellenna
    
    4 years ago
    
    Hug her and kiss her gently on the cheek at the time and maybe whisper that you really like her, then see where that leads.
    
    If you're always seeing her when other people are around, ask her if she'd like to have coffee or a drink with you.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      4 years ago
      
      Awwww
      
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Nednerb43

4 years ago

This is a tough one. Especially from a male perspective. You would think its similar , picking up chicks or whatever. But that world always seems to be a mystery. I say take the chance. Life is too short not to. If not just be a great friend and appreciate that friendship.
This has been, drunk advice of a mad man .thank you

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
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  Haha okay thanks crazy man
  
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