Do you think my wife want me to blow another guy?

For the past few years, my wife and I have been very experimental in the bed. It all started with the 50 shades books. She was always very conservative before, she read those and then started reading any BDSM erotica she could get her hands on. In the bedroom, it was tie me up, spank me, etc.. A few months later she wanted to tie me up, it was ok. A few months later she wanted me do anal on her, she loved that. We do that all the time now. Then a few months after that she stuck a finger up my ass. I liked it. After a few months of her doing that, she used a small dildo, I liked that to. None of that is an everyday thing, but it happens a few times a month. All of that is well and good.
Here is the new twist....
Last week, we got a little tipsy and had sex. I asked her to suck her dildo, which I do from time to time. I was watching her do that when the sudden she pulled my head down, pulled the dildo out of her mouth and shoved it in mine. In the heat of the moment, I sucked on it for a whole 30 seconds and then she exploded. She came really really really hard. We didn't really talk about it afterward but the next night she busted out the dildo again and she sucked it again. And again, while I was on top of her, she pulled my head down, pulled the dildo out of her mouth and french kissed me. While we were kissing, she pushed the head of the dildo in between our lips so that we were both licking the head of the dildo at the same time.
After this time, we talked. The long and short of it came down to me saying that if we were to have a 3way and that happened in real life, I would probably do it. She said she was proud I was admitting it. I told her that I was not attracted to guys but the act itself excited me. She said she did not want me going out on my own to do that but if I felt the need to explore that part of me, we would talk. She then said she did not feel comfortable sharing me.
Here is the question.....
Is she trying to tell me she wants me to blow a guy with her and just won't come out and say it?
Is she just wanting to keep using the dildo doing that from time to time?
What do I do next?
Thanks for the help.....