Do you think it's normal to get married this way?

Girl age 19 married guy age 23
Girl met guy 5 months back.
Girl got engaged 3 days ago.
Girl married guy yesterday in courthouse with no family there.

Normal or not?

Voting Results
23% Normal
Based on 144 votes (33 yes)
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Comments ( 20 )
  • y2k2012now

    That sounds kind of like a girl I know a college. Honestly, I worry about her and those type of marriages. I would say people should wait at least 2 years because that's when they figure out if they can handle the other person't quirks. If they get married right away like that, the guy or girl may have a trait that shows after a few years, and it might be the cause of their divorce. Hopefully they won't end up like that though :)

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  • annm2361

    Not normal but y not no one knows what future holds

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  • Bird1

    That is what I did....and divorced 7 years later!
    Well, we were actually both 21....
    People change so much in their 20's ....I became older, wiser, and more responsible....he became crazier, lazier, and irresponsible!

    :)
    True story

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  • blagh

    who gives a buttcrack if its normal or not.
    as long as your happy nothing else should matter

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  • R u tallking about urself..... It will end in a divorce

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  • mtnw

    sounds like eloping. what's the matter with that?

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  • squeegela

    Omg! Lol, so sorry!!! Thought you weresomeone else :/. There is someone who posted something similar about 4 times! Anyway, I do think this is normal!

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    • lol, it's okay. (: Thanks for the advice!

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  • Mel

    I say who cares, its over & done with. Cant go back in time! Worry about things that CAN be changed. If it works, great... If not, divorce.

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  • squeegela

    Yes Hun, it's still normal! My story: girl. 18, meets guy, 25, in november. Engaged. In december, married in April. 14 years later, still disgustingly happy with no end in sight.
    Please stop obsessing and try to make amends.

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  • runnergirl

    Not normal, but who cares? Everyone marries at different ages in different places after different dating relationships.

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  • TWhip

    Civil marriage. Normal, yes. Quick, yes. Most likely to divorce within 2 years...99% sure.

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  • yayasaga

    Lol it is lol 3 posts already and same responses lol take the hint!

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    • This is my first post about marriage so I dunno what you are on about.

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  • inlove89

    Are you still the same person? Omg..

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    • No, no that's someone else. I just read their post too, lol! It's just a coincidence, dw!

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      • 1000yrVampireKing

        I have seen people do this before. Not sure if it is normal. Maybe they had a kid?

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  • mdy112

    It's not up to you and your other post makes no sense...this one's better...quick and to the point. Let them be happy if that's what they are and if your friends not happy, then she'll be the one to suffer for that, in turn, learning a huge lesson herself..it's not your lesson to learn..make sense?

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  • yayasaga

    It's their life their choices. Be happy for them.

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  • kitexas221

    I met my husband whose 21 six weeks before we got engaged and then five days later we got married at the courthouse no family. And I'm 20. What's your point

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