Do you think 19 years old is too late to socialize ?

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Friendless, extrem shut-in, ankward to the point of being seen as someone weird or ridiculous, ect....

No, it's just anxiety. 21
No, it's just a question of perseverence to learn and change bad habit 18
No for an another reason. (precise why in comments, please) 2
Yes, it's really to late to learn, your brain is stuck like that. 1
Yes, no ones would tolerate someone socially inept who is soo old 1
Yes, if you're still like that, something must be wrong with you 2
Yes, everyone has already their social circle at your age. 3
Yes for an another reason (precise why in comments, please) 1
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  • Dulse.
    9 years ago

    Even if you were weird I'd be your friend. I don't care much. There are lots of people who are weird or a little strange who would look past a little quirky behavior. Trust me on that.

    It might be hard, but remember you're awesome. Confidence and feeling good in general are internally created. People who have a lot of internal struggles need to understand this especially much. Don't worry too much. :)

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  • despuit
    9 years ago

    You could be 82 and decide it is time to go out and socialise.

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  • ImjustJeff
    9 years ago

    Friendless? Awkward, weird? Ridiculous?

    You sound like somebody I could get along with!

    Why be so social, when you can just visit IIN? (<-- only half joking)

    Real people can suck. Besides, places like this, there are plenty of people that share your same interests. They will listen, and try to help with anything they can, and without fear of embarrassment.

    Sorry, I guess I'm not helping...

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  • disthing
    9 years ago

    It's never too late.

    Even on your death bed you could Skype :P

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  • Lynna
    9 years ago

    Just to be yourself in your comfortable way, need not have stress. Good luck:)

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  • Avant-Garde
    9 years ago

    It's never to late. Why don't you try taking something herbal for your anxiety ? I used to take Aswagandha for my anxiety and really loosened me up. http://www.herbwisdom.com/herb-ashwagandha.html
    Or, you can try Rodiola Rosea. http://www.herbwisdom.com/herb-rhodiola.html

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