Do you take a girl seriously if she sleeps with you on the first date?

And if a guy judges you for doing the same thing he did (sleeping together on the first date) why would you even want a serious relationship with him?

Of course. Sex is a wonderful thing, and surely you would want a partner who was attracted to you. If someone wants to have sex with me, I can only see how that could be a positive thing going forward. That's really all there is to it.

Projecting other meanings onto first date sex shows an unhealthy inability to trust people. If you think it means they would be likely to cheat on you in a relationship: you are insecure. If you think it means sex is meaningless to them: you are insecure. If you think it means they are only interested in your body: you are insecure. If you think it means anything more than "I wanted to have sex with you" you are projecting everywhere, and it's pathetic.

This poll is OBVIOUSLY meant for guys? How is that obvious? There are girls who sleep with girls too y'know...

The way I figure it, men could be divided into a few categories. And it might SEEM like sleeping with a guy soon is a bad idea based on their reactions, this isn't necessarily true if you fully consider each group's motivations.

1. Guys looking for casual sex.
They may lose interest after sex. But they would have lost interest pretty soon anyway.

2. Guys in it for "the chase".
They will lose interest after sex, whether it's on the first date or the tenth.

3. Guys looking for a relationship.
They won't lose interest just because you had sex.

4. Guys looking for a relation, or casual sex, but not with the same person.
They will lose interest, or stop treating you the same after sex. But these guys are creepy and would probably cheat on you. You don't want them anyway.

I had a girl sleep with me on our first date once. We have been married for 16 years now, so yes, you can respect them afterwards.

Just found myself in this scenario she's beautiful, smart, and good-humored. I was just happy waking up next to such a wonderful person. Removing the sexual tension I'm still crazy about her and plan to take her out again. Everything has to do with context.

If I felt that there was the potential for a relationship to form, then I don't think sex on the first date would alter that.

Never experienced that dilemma lol

If she slept with me on a first date then she probably would sleep with anyone on a first date. Also, I'd picture her sleeping with every guy she's ever dated.

If I'm looking for a relationship I won't try sleeping with you on a first date. I want to get to know you, if we hit it off they'll be plenty of time to fuck later.

As a girl I wouldn't sleep with a guy on the first date just because you're trying to get to know a person and sex just adds a different element to a relationship. I would think differently of a guy if he slept with me on a first date, I wouldn't want to be with someone that's willing to jump into something that intimate after one date.

Your first impression on a first date is important if you really see yourself having a relationship with someone you should wait to get to know that person. The only time I've slept with someone on the first date was when I wasn't interested in pursuing a relationship, I was only interested in hooking up.

Proceed with caution.

It depends.

Are you kidding? That's enough for me to want to date her sister!

Don't play games. Games are for children. If you like the guy, sleep with him.

I have noticed this about the women I have dated. If she passes my screening, about 1/3rd we sleep together on the first date, about 1/3rd on the second, and if we haven't by the second, there is no third date. My wife slept with me on our second date. Strangely, I have even met religiously avowed virgins who forgot about their chastity on that first or second date.

Let's put it this way, if she did this with you who knows how many before you came along. Surely your no Brad Pitt or celebrity.. So she's probably very experienced.. I'm not saying treat her any less, just keep a mental note

That double standard goes both ways.
it will always be common that guy chases girl. Girl chooses on of the interested. Now a day's it is still common for girls to flirt with multiple. As a man they expect you to show only a 100% interest in herself. You look at another girl she will say you are not interested.

That said. Ripping each other clothes of that is on contrary one will admit normal. It is supposed to go like that.
Why?
It is the core base of this relationship. You already have a lot of relations, hopefully also a lot of people you love. Sex has nothing to do with that. Anyone who says bull crap has no clue about how and what. Or is in denial.

This relation is different from all the others. only in one point of view. This relation is intended to reproduce yourself.
Any Son has a relation with it's father. With it's mother. They all love each other(at least we hope for them.)
Sex is in no way related accepted or what so ever in this relation. Disgusting I totally agree. A better example is not to find. But there is love we all agree on that. (sicko's etc is just sad)

I'm not saying only the rip of cloth-starters have a chance. But yes that is attraction between boy and girl. And next morning you'll know. This is something I like. I don't need an alarm to remind me.
What is the opposite
If 2 people have children but no sex for a 5y. Still married. People gossip they should get divorced. There is no love bla bla. 2 people all over each other still no children after 8 years people gossip out of jealousy.

people lie all the time. Girls are always like sex is not important.
Fall in love, wait like 3mths only talk and hold hands. Than finally your first time and fuck up major. Actually there was no click at all. The sex was a tragedy.
Many don't even last longer as 24h and get aborted. Girls kick you out. Not second chance possible.
While many peeps that start of "to fast' find themselves in a situation where they say. Actually the sex is good. We see each other so often. We match in character, maybe we should be realistic. We are in a relation together. And they agree.

now of course there will be always. People are never 100% the same. The mind is always gray. never black and white. There will be exceptions on the rules, always. Nevertheless in minority

Do you take me serious if I sleep with you on a first date?
Your answer to my question is my answer to your question.
You know why? Coz I don't sleep with cheap girls. Never.

I take her more seriously after that.

If you ask me, it depends of she liked it or not.

Depends on how easy they sleep on the first night, I suppose. If it's noticable that they want to sleep with "me" on the first night simply not due to my appearance or any other shallow reason but because they like me for who I am, then sure, I think that would be alright. If it's just a quick "let's fuck", then no. If it's that easy for me then how easy would it be for the many other people out there?

It all depends om the person to me. If I'm really into the womans personality then I'd keep seeing the woman.