Do you say sorry

I’m a girl but I never apologise for anything and tend to treat all problems like they’re someone else’s fault. My man is the exact same so when we argue we usually have make up sex.

I think a lot of guys do, dude. It's just easier. Idk if you necessarily should, but it's certainly normal.

My fiancée takes “sorry”s really serious, if you say sorry it means you’re promising not to do the thing you’re sorry for again. So I’ve only ever said it when I was going to try to change something

My husband will always apologies to me if he believes he has made a bad decision that affects me. However, he tends not to think this very often. If he makes a decision about something he expects me to do my best to make it work, if not I will get a good spanking

I never say sorry to anyone even though I feel like it I can just never express my feelings but sometimes I show that i'm sorry in certain ways

"...when you upset her though it isn't your fault?"

Strange wording. If something you do or say angers someone, then you own the action that upset them.

Whether their reaction is reasonable is another question. Some people love drama, and they deliberately interpret words and actions in the worst possible way. If you don't know someone really well, it's easy to accidentally prod a raw nerve. Some people are selfish, and they get upset when confronted with the fact that their partner has their own needs and desires. Some people have unrealistic expectations of how a relationship should work, don't know how to negotiate and so they get upset when there's any conflict at all.

Lots of people don't know what the hell they really want in a relationship, aren't capable of expressing their needs and feelings calmly and clearly, and are unable to listen, accept and empathise when others express their needs and feelings. Putting two people like that together is a recipe for arguments, frustration and tears.

You should apologise if you've upset someone by a deliberately saying or doing something which you now recognise wasn't fair or kind. You should also apologise if you've accidentally upset them and you wish you hadn't.

Telling someone you're sorry that they're upset sounds like an apology, but actually isn't. What it says is that you believe you haven't actually done anything wrong, and the other person has overreacted or is being irrational.

The ability to accept that we've made a mistake and admitting that is a sign of good mental health and emotional maturity. Those who can't recognise when they've made an error, own it and move forward are either psychopaths or emotionally fragile. They may look strong, but their sense of self is so rigid and brittle that they know it would shatter if they ever admitted they were less than perfect. They aren't capable of dealing with the discomfort of getting something wrong, so they warp their perception of reality to make themselves right and the rest of the universe wrong.

Like Leroy Jethro Gibbs says; "Never apologize. It's a sign of weakness." He also says to always carry a knife. Maybe the two go hand in hand.

Not if I don’t think it’s my fault no.

No

I hate when someone says sorry if they dont mean it