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Apologies if this posted twice, it didn't show up last time. Basically I went on one date with this guy and it was fine but he keeps pestering me for nudes. He gets all pissed off when I say no, but we're not going out or anything officially. Is this normal
Speaking from personal experience, this is a bad sign of a potential boyfriend. I was with this guy for months (we met up a lot, but were seeing other people, that kinda' thing) and he was the exact same! I'm a total idiot so I gave in and when that wasn't enough, he asked for some obscene videos instead. Aaaand surprise, surprise he showed every guy on the planet everything I had ever sent him. So, don't be like me. Don't feel under pressure to send him anything you don't want to send and honestly, fuck his attitude! He sounds like a horny 14 year old.
No, you don't owe him shit! The fact that he's persistent and gets angry is a sign that you should never ever give him anything ever. People who can't take no for an answer don't deserve to ever get anything.
Also as Kittenfever mentioned this guy just might show everyone he knows and put it online or something. Don't trust this guy!
Why would you owe him anything? He's not respecting your wishes if he's hassling you about it: end this situation and find someone worth your energy........... unless of course you want your naked body all over the internet for ever and ever and ever and ever
I'll add my vote to the consensus here: the guy's persistent demands prove he's an asshat, you owe him precisely nothing, and you should block him.
You don't owe someone anything just because they have a tantrum.
If he can't respect you or behave like an adult, you may have to ditch him.
Agreed. If you don't consent, it's not OK for him to keep on at you. If you two were actually dating and had mutual respect for eachother then fine, you could do anything under the sun, but you should respect yourself first. He's a complete asshat.
One date and he wants nudes? Did you already have sex or something? Is that his way of breaking the ice to have sex if you had the second date?
Don't give that ass anything. He sounds like an idiot to expect that. Tell him you want a pic of his Johnson first and then give him nothing. Tell him if he doesn't leave you alone you'll post on his facebook wall or elsewhere/everywhere.
As mentioned above whatever happened to building a relationship first? Too fast and too needy and it's your private life he wants into.
No, and it's best not to ever.
Also, that guy sounds like an utter creep.
This isn't normal at all. You owe him nothing. If he can't accept your decision on this, don't hesitate to leave.
Agreed with everyone else. He seems to be toxic. Block him and move on. Don't try anything with him.
it is normal bc some guys are such jerks, but this is toxic, if u don´t want to block him, he´s a totally douchebag
Only after he gives you a dozen nudes of himself - full nudity of him from different angles. OR, you tell him you'll send 1 nude of yourself for every 2 nudes of him he sends you. IF he really wants your nude pics, then he'll make and honor the deal with you.
Absolutely not. You don’t “owe” him anything.
If I were you, I’d ditch him. He sounds like a jerk.
Don't give nudes to anyone. Don't even let anyone take them. It's not worth it. They could easily find their way to the internet where they'll be there for all to see. Including future employers and your family.