Do you like your wife to tell you about getting hit on at bars

If it's just an innocent casual mention i wouldn't mind, but some women have other motives. I dated this one chick who was constantly telling me how many guys were hitting on her, asking her out, complimenting her looks, etc. . It was a transparent ploy to make me jealous and think i'm a real lucky fuck. I didn't get jealous i got single.

Well I would be kind of angry and ask how she reacted. Probably go with them next time to make sure it did not happen again. If she is bragging since she liked the attention I would leave the relationship. If she was saying it since she was bothered by it I would want to defend her.

Why would my wife (assuming I had one) be at a bar by herself? I'd be more concerned with that than her getting hit on.

This is an interesting poll, because just two days ago my bf blew up at me for telling him about a crowd of guys who were hitting on me at the bus stop. He was like yelling"are you trying to make me feel lucky to have someone so desirable? Or are you just trying to get me jealous and pissed off? WHY are you telling me this?" And I was like, "I don't know, I was just casually mentioning it. I didn't think it was a big deal. Besides, I think we should be able to be open with each other."
Guys and girls definitely don't think alike.

It also depends on how much other information I may want to share that would be more important to tell him or who it was who was hitting on me or how he was hitting on me.

There was this one bar where I'd meet some friends after work and it seemed like the guys were all the same: short, greasy, black leather coats, and black pants.

Oh, and if the guy used a lame pick-up line, I would definitely tell him that one.

And the creepy guy at work. I told him about that one just for safety. You know, in case I'm late coming home and my car is still in the parking lot, he'd have someone to describe to the police as a likely suspect.

If she was hit anywhere is a turn on. By anyone. You are the only one going to bed with her and as soon she start telling you what the guy told her your pinky is going into full motion.... A good example to screw the he'll out of her.

Ok one more thing she is almost 40 2 kids and 20 something's are alway after her :) ( but it not like she go out all the time)

Just for clarification, I love that guys find her hot! she flerts gets turn on and we fun!

I guess it depends on the person and the relationship. If I told him some guy was hitting on me, he wouldn't care. I also don't think he'd care if I didn't tell him. Not telling him is not the same as hiding it from him and I think there's a limit to how honest you should be with anyone, especially a loved one. I also think there's a difference between secrecy for the sake of deception and just a little bit of privacy and not needing to tell every single thing.

I tell her...its not a big deal. She knows that she is the only chick I'm banging.

I don't get the question...is she going out to bars alone..or are you with her and as soon as you go to the bathroom every wigga in the joint is hitting on her....if she's constantly going to bars without you that is somewhat of a problem unless of course she has asked you and you don't want to go and told her to please go without you...and then she is telling you that some guys have hit on her, etc...or if you turn around for a second and some douche hits on her..then she is giving you a heads up....

Only serious hitting on her should be reported to you...if she tells you about every smile wave and wink then she is sort of threatening you by saying watch out snooze a doodle somebody may snag you snack box