Do you go to bed at the same time as your partner?

For those of you who've lived with your boyfriend / girlfriend / spouse, do you go to bed at the same time together?

I never have (schedules never match), but I like the idea of it.

Yes, always. 19
Most of the time. 39
Rarely. 17
Never. 8
I've never had a live-together relationship. 39
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Comments ( 18 )
  • dappled

    It's a nightmare for me. Falling asleep is tough enough when I can choose my own bedtime. When it's someone else's, I just lie there and look at the ceiling in utter misery for eight hours until it's time to get up.

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    • VioletTrees

      This. If I didn't bring my computer to bed, I wouldn't be able to deal with it.

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      • dappled

        I recently bought myself a tablet and it's just brilliant because they're as near to silent as is possible. Now I'm just missing someone to be silent around!

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        • Pull up a picture of Zhao Wei. ;))

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          • dappled

            It might make me do things that I can't do silently. I need to maintain respect for the invisible woman by my side. :P

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  • Blakeandersonshair

    Weekends mostly. He works nights and I dont work, I go to school.

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  • OswaldCobblepot

    We generally hop in bed at the same time, but I'm usually asleep long before she is.

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  • howaminotmyself

    We don't have the same work schedules so we rarely go to bed at the same time. I work much earlier than he does. Although he does often lay with me for about 10 minutes while I fall asleep. Then he gets up again and continues his evening.

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  • Blazneg2007

    We almost always go to bed together. She tends to fall asleep quickly. I'll play on my phone for a while or get up if I'm not tired. We make it a habit of going to bed at the same time to facilitate love making :D

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    • IrishPotato

      Sounds like you plan alot C:

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  • LaMer

    I do most of the time although he tends to fall asleep awhile before me. I read a book or mess around on my laptop for a little while before sleeping whereas he falls asleep almost immediately after getting into bed. Some nights if I'm not feeling well I'll stay in the living room so he can get a good night's rest without me bugging him.

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  • blueberrypancakes

    Nope. I'm a night owl and an early riser. She likes to sleep sleep sleep. We even sleep in different rooms. Basically we'll have sex and then go our separate ways for the evening.

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  • kelili

    Always.. Don't like to lie in bed alone. Sometimes he waits for me to fall asleep then slip out of bed to go watch tv

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  • UhhhOK

    Pretty much what Dappled said. I go to bed at the same time as my girlfriend but I just lay there for hours until she wakes up or I wake her up trying to get up. Insomnia is a bitch.

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  • VioletTrees

    Bed? Yes. Sleep? No. He sleeps while I stay up all night doing Slender Man stuff.

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  • WordWizard

    I do not see why this is a bad thing?

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    • who said it was?

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      • WordWizard

        I am saying that it is not.

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