Do you find feminine men sexually attractive?

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I'm not talking about feminine, as in wearing makeup, dresses, or having painted fingernails. I'm talking about men who either have long hair, pretty eyes, a fair complexion, fair skin, a soft voice, etc, or all of these. Do you find men like this sexually attractive?

I find feminine men to be very sexually attractive. 283
I can find them attractive, but not sexually though. 62
I don't like feminine men at all. I like manly men. 72
I wouldn't find them sexually attractive if they're prettier then me. 13
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  • BigKahunaBurger
    13 years ago

    Pretty eyes are ok, long hair depends on the guy - it's attractive to me if he's manly-looking otherwise, but I prefer shorter cuts. A guy taking care of himself is fine by me but I'm attracted to men who are a little rough around the edges. A little carefree stubble and straying eyebrows don't hurt. One thing I cannot stand on a man is really obviously plucked and shaped eyebrows. Really, unless it's a monobrow leave it alone!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I dont know if my profile picture is feminine but then again just because I have a rose doesnt make it feminine.

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  • wigsplitz
    13 years ago

    I find it completely unattractive!! To me it says frail, wimpy, afraid to get dirty and probably too concerned about his looks. Yuck.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      But then again nearly every woman is like that,your right "yuck".

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      • wigsplitz
        13 years ago

        I agree.

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        • [Old Memory]
          13 years ago

          I dissagree to an extent. Male narcissists are very feminine looking they care most about their looks etc and they can be the most dangerous types of male out there.

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          • wigsplitz
            13 years ago

            Who are you disagreeing with, yourself or me? And I agreed with you. I'm lost on this one. Is it the wimpy comment? By wimpy I don't mean incapable of harm, just like a big strong man can be gentle a wimpy man can certainly inflict harm.

            My definition of wimpy is "not manly", which encompasses physical, behavioral and personality traits. My definition of manly is in my head so I don't know if we'll ever understand eachother.

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            • [Old Memory]
              13 years ago

              Yeah I would say the wimpy comment because alot of feminine men are actualy pretty well built on physiqe. What I think the OP ment was that they are feminine as in hair and facial wise not body type. Most men that try to have a beautiful face also work out to get a beautiful body. Maybe the younger feminine males arent strong but the more older ones are.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Change the photo ItDuz. The rose is pretty gay.

    Just sayin.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Whats gay about a rose?
      Thats like saying only lesbians wear leather because men wore leather before then. I like the rose I would rather that picture than the pictures of peoples style nowadays.

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      • kelseyt
        13 years ago

        Dont listen to these people. Being feminine doesn't make you gay.

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      • BoredGuy
        13 years ago

        ye... its gay.

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  • lovedrug666
    12 years ago

    i love pretty boys. :) EVERY man chooses how he dresses, so what if a guy ACTUALLY has enough style to keep up with me! That's an amazing thing. I don't want to dress up (normal for me) and come out and see some guy in ripped up jeans and a t-shirt. It's sexy to know a guy gets ready for me! :) And even the manliest men I have dated have done their eyebrows for me, because it drives me insane for them to not be taken care of, and once they do.. they ALL still do it til this day! Because a man looks trimmed, and clean. BUT I do love some stubble as well, and long hair is very sexy but not metro... I know a bunch of guys with longer hair.. just depends on how you style it.. if you do at all!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I got told im a "pretty boy" because of my bright skin, bright eyes and I like roses, im working on getting my hair back to its long self again. I think feminine men are more attractive (Im not homosexual) I just think how they look so innocent but still have the mind of a male if that makes any sense?

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  • wreckd
    13 years ago

    Yesss. When I first met my husband, he had long hair and he has very fair skin and gentle blue eyesss. I see nothing wrong with being a bit feminine.

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    • KeyboardSolo
      13 years ago

      Just a curiosity. Are you on birth control? I'm not asking if you've had sex, or if you're having sex, or any of that. Simply yes, or no, are you on the pill? I read something recently about the physiological and hormonal changes women go through when they're on the pill.

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      • wigsplitz
        13 years ago

        That was a really wierd question!!

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        • wreckd
          13 years ago

          lol. Agreed.

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      • wreckd
        13 years ago

        No, I'm not on the pill.

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  • LemonCheese
    10 years ago

    Well, you may count my BF as a little feminine.. He has long black hair, but apart from that. He is complete man. Hahah (':

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  • thc123
    12 years ago

    i prefer manly men, feminine men is such an oxymoron....and feminine men are just plain gay...i dont want to f*** a gay guy sorry...

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  • Erica4U
    12 years ago

    You know, I remember being told when I was growing up by other women, You want to marry a feminine, warm, loyal hard working man however, you want to have sex with a rugged construction worker and if possible have his babies! I know so many women that live by that creed! All sorts of women! All ages and all classes! I am middleaged now and I truly do adore feminine men! I am sexually attracted to them and I am emotionally attracted to them. I have a serious relationship with a most beautiful inside and out feminine man! I have never been happier!

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  • sleepingbeauty
    12 years ago

    I personally am not generally attracted to feminine men, or overly muscled men either. I like a 'real' man ;)

    But for the OP, consider how many women found Michael Jackson sexually attractive, he was incredibly feminine and continued to strive towards femininity.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Yeah i found very attrative and sexualaity and i feel i want to Anal sex with hi Oh My Goah did i say that being gay and musilm is a sin and also anal sex :( Damn im sad and depress right now

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  • Clandestinely
    12 years ago

    Heck yes! My bf is both masculine and effeminate - a perfect combo!

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Nope. I like me some manly men. =)

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  • RoxasXAxel
    13 years ago

    RAPE!!! to the person who wrote this story, I find those kinds of guys ubberly totally attractive.

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  • eternalsmoke31
    13 years ago

    I dont think long hair is feminine...Just How you style and dress it up...

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    thats n incredibly lovely photo, if you dont mind me saying

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      Was that aimed towards me?

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      • [Old Memory]
        13 years ago

        yes

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        • [Old Memory]
          13 years ago

          Cool.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    no. big turn off for me !

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  • sk8ertot
    13 years ago

    im metrosexual an im a buff and rich airborne infantry solder and im not weak minded at all it takes more mental streangth to stand as a metrosexual than as a manly man because no one starts off born (metrosexual its a decision) when they decide to change they have to deal with all of there manly freinds and family talking shit and jokes so i would say it takes complete mental streangth were not wimpy

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  • theytookthisone
    13 years ago

    Hell no. If I'm going for someone thats feminine, I might as well date a chick

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  • Shrunk
    13 years ago

    yes even if they wear makeup and dresses, i find them most attractive i'd like to see them dressed up to look like a real girl

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    i find them as kind of...........gay!

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