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"Swinging", as in wife swapping or partner swapping has grown in popularity.
Do you consider "swinging" as "cheating"?
| NO, It's a mutal agreement, so it's NOT Cheating | 88 | |
| YES, all sex other than with your partner IS Cheating | 18 |
As long as it's a mutually agreed upon arrangement, I don't think it's cheating.
It's not a life style that is for everyone, and not for me, but I know people who enjoy that lifestyle.
Webster's defines to cheat as:
: to break a rule or law usually to gain an advantage at something
: to take something from (someone) by lying or breaking a rule
: to prevent (someone) from having something that he or she deserves or was expecting to get
Can't be cheating if the other knows about it and it's consensual. Swingers are not all the same, just like anyone else. Some couples only play together, some only play apart (can't watch their partner in the act), some do it both ways. Some couples just look for a single person to join them. Sometimes male, sometimes female.
I love seeing the "I have no fucking idea what I'm talking about" responses on here.
The meaning of cheating implies the other person does not know. If they know, by defination it is not cheating. People who have an issue with it need to stop being concerned by things tat have nothing to do with them.
That's a really odd question. You must have some huge sexual issues to even think of a question like that.
Not all swingers are married.
As I said, it's not a lifestyle I would choose, but I understand for some couples, they enjoy it.
I am not interested in being a swinger, but that doesn't mean I should impose my personal view on everyone else, including those that do enjoy swinging.
I'm not a lesbian either, but I support gay marriage.
You don't have to agree with other people's choices in sex partners to be tolerant of it.
My wife and I have been married for almost 50 yrs and were swingers for around 20 yrs. We had sex with other married cpls and single cpls who were dating. As well as singles for threesomes, gangbangs etc. They were all just average everyday people who used sex as a fun way to make new friends or pass time with old friends who were like minded. No one got hurt and I can only recall one cpl who got divorced and that had nothing to do with their swinging.
it's not cheating as there is consent with all parties involved. In other words it is enjoyable for all!
I would never consider committing adultery, but I'd gladly share my wife with another man or woman.
I wouldn't want my partner to be with anyone else but me. Some people like it, and that's okay I guess, but I just don't understand it...