Do you choose a person you know is not on your "level"?

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I think I have never done as good as I can. I am a man. Age 40. I date outside my race I believe intentionally. I am white and I know that most of the women I have chosen, all gone now, have not really been ... A match (let's say).. I am not at all being smug or uppity. I am speaking the truth. I knew they looked at me like a catch and I didn't honestly feel the same in return. But felt "secure". Thoughts..?

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  • RoseIsabella
    6 years ago

    Settling in order to feel secure can backfire on you. That security can start to feel like a prison, and make you feel trapped. Why not look for someone who is your equal? Are you afraid of failure, afraid of abandonment?

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  • Shackleford96
    6 years ago

    I'm probably projecting here a bit, but you probably don't deserve them honestly. You would rather settle than face the reality that you'll likely just be alone because you'll never find that 'match.'

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    No one is superior to anyone.

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    Just find someone you like bro

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  • alienslayer
    6 years ago

    Vampires don't need a match

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