Do you care if your s.o. masturbates?

Do you care if your spouse or significant other masturbates? If not, is there a point of "too much" for it to happen? Do you think it's healthy and helpful to the relationship? Or do you feel it takes away from it?

Yes 1
No 5
No...I find it erotic and stimulating 11
Yes...it shouldn't be done in a healthy relationship 2
Other...specify in comments 2
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Comments ( 23 )
  • flawdagirl

    Seeing a guy masturbate is a def turn on.

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    • shuggy-chan

      fap fap fap fap fap

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      • flawdagirl

        mmmm

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        • shuggy-chan

          your paying me in m&m's for fapping?

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          • flawdagirl

            lol why not?

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  • That seems quite a ridiculous thing to get upset about. It's actually unhealthy to get upset about something like this. If I had a girlfriend get upset over this I would kick her out in an instant. Why would anyone put up with this type of jealousy?

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    • RainbowDischarge

      My boyfriend has been putting up with it for almost 5 years. I must be doing something that compensates.

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  • dom180

    My ex-girlfriend sometimes masturbated with me as a part of foreplay. That was fun. I think masturbating is healthy and it's attractive to be open sexually. So long as it doesn't reduce your sexual appetite, then it's good.

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  • Gspyder

    If someone thought they had the authority to tell me what I can and can't do with my own body they would be too controlling for me anyway

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  • anti-hero

    I wish she would do it more.

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  • Cuntsiclestick

    Personally I wouldn't care if he masturbates.

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  • RainbowDischarge

    I realize it's healthy and normal but I still get jelly and feel insecure about it. That isn't normal. C'mon man, I lick your penis and give myself to you everyday, every night. Im like his personal asian porn star. Am I still not satisfying?! Irrational thinking is a bitch.

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    • Cuntsiclestick

      So you're jealous of his hands?

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      • RainbowDischarge

        The left one is such a hoebag. She's not even pretty. I don't get it.

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        • shuggy-chan

          maybe you should just try hand instead??? idk

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