Do you believe to get over someone...

you have to get under someone else?
To be honest, I do.

Yes 22
No 33
I don't know 7
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  • anti-hero

    No that is just silly high school talk.

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    • I wasn't having sex in high school, well until the ast very few months of it so that kind of thing never applied to me.

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      • anti-hero

        Immature either way.

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  • Avant-Garde

    No.

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  • NeuroNeptunian

    In the scientific sense, having sex with someone else can really speed up the process of getting over a previous partner but it is not necessary.

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  • BurnaBaby27

    Hmm..not necessarily sex, I don't think. I was with my ex for three years and the last year and a half were awful but I just couldn't bare to leave him because of our son. Finally, my previous ex whom I was in love with came back into my life and I could easily leave my boyfriend at the time without looking back, because there was someone else. I guess I feared being alone.

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  • Jeaneathean

    In the short term. Very short term.

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  • dom180

    I'll be honest, I don't even know what that means. "Get under someone"? Is that euphemism for sex which I am just naive about? Or does it just mean to fall for someone else, or find someone else to be with you?

    In any case - no, I don't think it's required. Although I'm sure it's helpful to some people.

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    • It means sex.

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  • dappled

    Not for me, no. Not for men in general, I don't think. Women seem to be more flexible and practical about their options but I think men (and obviously lots of women too) do struggle and there isn't a magic instant solution.

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  • It happens that way quite often, but people can get over someone in other ways.

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