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Some people think that you are either gay or straight, some people believe you can be Bi, others think that you can choose however you want to be depending on what desires you have.
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Sex is just sticking something in someone else, or licking/sucking something, or whatever to something else. Does it really matter whether what does it is a man, a woman, or made of plastic? I don't think it's the sex part that makes you gay. I think it's the attraction (emotional, as well as physical).
If I had a blindfold on, and a clean-shaven guy gave me a blowjob, it's hardly the end of the world. I might not even notice the difference. What I don't want to do, though, is cuddle with him after. And that, to me, is the difference.
the cuddling is the difference O_o?!, can I point out you just got a blow job from a guy.
...but reluctantly I get what your saying.
See... that's the problem. People are so scared they are going to be called gay that they don't think but instead react like "Umm... that sounds gay... I'm not going to think it through, I'm just going to deny it straight away so no-one will laugh at me".
To me, kissing a guy passionately or being in a relationship with one would probably label me as gay (or bi). But putting a blindfold on, and getting a blowjob imagining it was from a woman, doesn't really make me gay.
This is the thing people forget. It's not down to the gender that's doing it to you. It's down to your preference.
I think we as people have drawn the line on sexuality i dont see why there has to be a like why cant everyone just experiece everything everyone has to offer, you could be a straight guy who has always wanted to experiment with a gay guy no big deal your just testing the waters and who knows it may feel better than anything you have ever had.
GO GAYS WE ARE AWESOME, BLOW AND CONVERT
Your question is too vague. Are you referring to a person's orientation (the person's most natural inclinations) or a person's behavior? These are two different things. Obviously, people behave in ways that aren't consistent with their normal, every day life. So it could be possible for a person to enjoy their non-preferred gender. But this doesn't mean a person's orientation is a simple matter of "flexibility" or "openness."
I chose "other."
Try pansexual out for size.
That means one can be attracted to men, women, both, transgendered, transexual,heterosexual, hetroflexible, homosexual, homoflexible, genderfluid, asexual, adrogonous men, androgynous women, male gendered, female gendered, crossdressers.
Pansexual people are attracted to the general gist of someone, or personality, rather than 'what' they are.
I am bisexual for the moment. I like men and women...full stop. I'd say there is in an equal split between the two. A few of my female friends are heteroflexible, which means that they are technically straight, but occasionally find themselves attracted to women. The rarity of that varies depending on the person.
My wife and I are 81 yo and for the last 35 years, we've been bisexual. We have been married for 57 years and have fucked over 100 people, each of us having a couple dozen same-gender experiences. We love it all and believe we are happier, mature humans because of it. Jim
ON STAGE it felt like... I actually got with a friend I met on line who was wanting to masturbate with someone being that's pretty much what his ad on line said. So we met at a gas station and I was surprised he lived only around the corner from me. When he took me inside no time was wasted before both our pans got off and he began stroking. What reaslly surprised me was he had his homes back yard curtains WIDE OPEN. There were homes behind his home and I know they can see inside. I joned hime and he cum first and fast. He sat and watched me with a smile..interestig was we never touched each other, but I bet he'd enjoy that too.
it is not possible to be gay, straight and bi at the same time!
in fact, I dont even believe in being bi.
There will never be someone who completely hates men and there will never be someone who completely hates women
So everyone is a little gay, or a little straight.
People have their preferences too though. So, a man who says he is straight, but always loves hanging out just with guys, not even going out to clubs, just guys is a little gay.
but he still wouldnt make out with them, he just really loves the boys.
but loves his women even more. You can only rightly fit a puzzle piece into one that fits some way
My brother doesn't believe that there is a such thing as Bi.
I agree with BabyGirl92 and dappled.
There are people who don't care. People love who they love. If that person happens to be a man, a woman, or both, or someone who likes the same sex, or someone who likes both; If you love them, you'd love them just the same if they were the opposite sex.
"Puzzle pieces" is a very close minded way to look at it. That's why people have invented fake body parts and such. For that missing piece, there is something equally fitting to take the place if the person you love happens to be lacking that piece.
I think that as long as both are the same species or race [and by race I mean human not ethnicity], it doesn't really matter, does it?
Wouldn't bisexual and open mean the same thing then? Anyways, I think everybody's bisexual to some degree, some just more than others.
if you haven't sucked a penis you really shouldn't have an opinion on the subject, like everything else try it once first eh? your drunk, your gay, but getting head from a girl at this party might not ruin your life, oh no hugely attractive anonymous woman i won't join in on your three-some
We are swingers so we are open about sex with others. I like other women sometimes but hubby is str8! Always! :) Sal
My hubby and I are good examples of flexi-sexuality. I consider myself pan-sexual because I really don't care if someone is male, female, shemale, he/she, pre or post op, etc... but my hubby is hetero-flexible because he generally enjoys women, but on occasion, and with the right guy he will be moved to more. But we are also swingers, and therefore are probably more "open" than the mainstream American ideal.
The way I look at it is, physically men and women are different and it is fun to explore both sides. But emotionally, every person is different, and if I'm attracted to the person (not their gender or sex) then sexual relations can be mind-blowing.
People need to understand there is a difference between sex (male, female, or intersexed) and gender, which can range from masculine to feminine, and anywhere in between and even everything in between. Sex is biological, gender is societal.
you can be stright, gay or bi whatever makes you happy. about the blind fold thing its true u might not even be abel to tell. or you could tell instantly but enjoy it more than if a woman was giving you a blowjob.
it its your choice. and if people make fun off you stick up for your self and punch them in the face. well maby not punch them in the face. but stick up for your self no matter what happens.
and never worry because you will always have back up it could be your girlfriend/boyfriend best friend or evern me. have fun and do what ever it takes to be happy