Do you believe in the whole "out of your league" idea?

I feel as if the majority does feel like they are better than what comes at them, it just depends if they show/say it. For example, I do. I believe some guys just don't get it that I deserve better than you. I know it sounds bad but its the truth for the majority, some people just don't want to look bad where as to others don't care, like me, because all we're trying to prove is that leagues do exist whether we like it or not. Doesn't anyone feel like "look at me? or do you know me? does it look like Id go out with you?". Come on everyone feels that way at some point. Even I've felt like someone can do better than me with this one guy who I hooked up with but that's it and Id like to hang out with him more but hes just so experienced or something that makes him higher than me. It sucks but what can you do, its the truth. I mean put it this way, it's like a gangster or garbage man thinking he can get with Kim Kardashian, you know like there's not even an explanation for that. As much as you don't want to admit to the person you're out of their league meaning you're too good for them, we feel that way at some point. Sometimes I feel maybe I'm not presenting myself right? Is that why these low-lives keep thinking they have a chance with me? Or it's like going back to the one who cheated on you, why would you do that? Cheaters themselves are low-lives and you know you deserve better. I don't know but it can be really annoying. So do you believe in this idea?

Yes, leagues do exist as much as we'd like for it to not exist 45
No, no one is better than anyone else 39
Yes, because others do deserve better than what they have or done 10
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  • KickTheDog

    I believe in paragraphs.

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  • casualcrow

    And it depends what criteria you use to determine whether you're better than someone. If you believe you are more attractive than someone else then fine, you have your own opinion of what is handsome and what is not.

    If you think someone is out of your league because they're middle class and you're upper class then that's a waste of a potentially good relationship. Obviously someone like Kim Kardashian won't go out with a garbage man even if she thought he was attractive because she's shallow and stupid and she has to worry about her public image.

    But if you truly enjoy someones company and personality sometimes you have to look past all the bullshit and trust the person for who they are.

    We see movies like this all the time. The rich attractive girl is so used to the same rich, snobby, guy that she feels bored and empty, and then she meets a totally different attractive guy but hes poor and her family doesn't approve and they run away together lol. You get my point, if you feel attracted to someone then forget about that "league" stuff and do what you wanna do.

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  • casualcrow

    I believe in the "Spacing my paragraphs" idea.

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  • lease

    Of course there are leagues. Don't even know how to explain this. You have to have a step up SOMEWHERE along the rules. For example, I'm average weight and tall. Not athletic. Not pretty. I'm intelligent and fairly well-educated. I like being well-rounded. Average income. Was told at a young age that the "prettiest girl in school rarely gets asked out because no one has the balls to do it." ....lemme assure you that this is true - and I went to prom with the hottest girl in school - for the simple fact that I was confident. Confidence can tear through "leagues" like no one's business....

    There are three kinds of hot girls:
    1) hot, dumb as a toaster
    2) hot, knows they're hot, bitch
    3) hot, smart, doesn't think they're hot

    #3 is what you want. The most attractive thing on a girl is her mind and the way she treats people. I'm happy to elaborate further - how would you describe yourself? How would you define your intelligence?

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  • If it didn't then you'd be seeing attractive people with non attractive people, you don't see that often.

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  • Riddler

    There is a way to win everyone. Relationships are based on psychology. Its very easy to impress a person if you know that. However depending on income and location its going to be more or less likely you will run into certain type of people. It does not mean that person is not winnable.

    Also all people have different tastes and if you are able to actually impress them might not win them over if you are simply not the persons type. Being in a league though really had nothing to do with it. Its type, psychology, presentation and location.

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  • sure_thing

    "Leagues" implies to me that some people are intrinsically better than others and thus above being in a relationship with them. In my opinion, this is completely false. I'd prefer to say that there's "incompatibility." A hot bimbo certainly isn't better by nature than an average looking guy, nor is it true when the genders are reversed; however, the bimbo may refuse to see the average person's internal qualities because her preferences make them incompatible.

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  • Grendel1013

    I do believe in the " Out of my league" deal.

    My ideal Woman:
    Psychical traits:

    1) Thin, but not overly skinny like a walking skeleton.

    2)Must have hips.

    3) Good hygiene.

    Personality traits:

    1) Must be laid back, but able to take control when needed.

    2) Must be independent and can take care of her self.

    3) Honest.

    4) have an open mind, not only to sex but to new things in general.

    5) Can't dress ghetto or have that ghetto slang.

    6) Must have a brain, smart woman turn me on.

    7) And must have a fun personality, and willing to be random at times.

    I have been looking for a Woman who meets my criteria for years, either they have one or two of the aspects posted above and lack in every other. I don't want to just settle for what is available which is my biggest fear, but it seems like I may have to if my luck does not change soon.

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    • lease

      How has that list worked out for you so far? Not really? Oh, imagine that.

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    • Milenajonijon

      Don't settle just allow urself to get to know someone. Most people are unique and awesome but u have to give people time to open up. Don't put girls on interviews, keep the checklist but don't tell girls about it. These are normal things u want. Also look in the right places.

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  • joybird

    This reminds me of the night I was in a club and one of my friends was being told to leave by the doorman. She said to me,
    "I just said to him,'Do you know who I am? My name is ---- and I have 3 toilets in my house!'"
    I swear I have never laughed as much in my life!
    I was sorely tempted to ask if that meant she was full of shit. She was, obviously!!!

    Who to f**k did she think she was?

    Have you seen the dumb@ss Kim Kardashian has taken up with?

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  • KickTheDog

    I don't get what you are saying.
    Someone cheated on you and now you are whining about it?

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  • wigsplitz

    Men are morons who actually do believe to some degree that they deserve or can get their ideal woman, whatever that may be.

    They get this impression from porn, strippers, gold diggers and prostitutes mostly.

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    • lease

      Obviously you're a less than ideal woman. How is that man's fault? Seriously, there are some dirtbag guys out there. But man-hating's not going to get you far! I'd say a guy has every right to search for his ideal woman - just like you have the right to search for your ideal man.

      Obviously, your ideal man wanted to get away from your trailer.

      Also, have you ever seen a good-looking prostitute? No. Ya haven't.

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    • sugarbunny772

      thumbs up! i agree

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  • Katywompus

    What's the problem with garbage men???

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  • thecoldhardtruth

    Well first of all Kim kardashian is an idiot, so I don't think that she was the best example of a good catch. Anyway, yes, leagues exist. But it's not only for good looks, it also goes for intelligence and wealth and basic standard of living.

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  • BrunetteBeauty93

    No, I don't believe in them. I date who I want to date & that's that. Fuck "leagues" and all of the shallow, ignorant people who encourage them.
    /end rant

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    I believe in rich old men + hot young women.

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    • Milenajonijon

      That doesn't ever really work out lol

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