Do you believe in sex after marriage?

No. I believe in making love and the person that I marry will have my heart.

Do I believe in sex after marriage? Yes. I believe a couple should continue having sex EVEN after they get married. Sadly, many couple fail in this aspect. :D

Sex after marriage? Don't people get married and then stop having sex? Have all the sex you can before you get married because you won't for long after.

I personally believe marriage is something to go into after a lot more forethought and consideration than sex is.

I waited for love, and had a wonderful first time because of it. I wasn't ready to be married at 19, though.

I've always wanted to wait until I'm married.
Your body is the hugest and best gift you can ever give someone.
Choose wisely.

Personally, I couldn't stand to be in a long term relationship with someone without sex being involved.

I believe in sex before, during, and (hopefully) after marriage

Wow! It's a 50/50 on the voting.

do you believe in life after love

If you want to, then that's fine. I wouldn't try to change your mind.

Me personally, after having many different sexual experiences, I'd prefer to know what I like and know how my partner performs before making the huge committment to marriage. My preferences and expectations have changed greatly from when I was first sexually active. I wouldn't want to be stuck with someone I was incompatible with for life by getting married before knowing what I and he liked. I wouldn't want to feel like I had to conform to what he ended up liking, and I wouldn't want to have to settle for something I wasn't 100% satisfied with for the rest of my life.

I probably would have crazy sex after marriege. Just saying!

Yes it is possible but I'm just not waiting.

I think the question was in reference to waiting till you were married to have sex. By social norms the answer would be yes. You should wait to have sex until you were married. Unfortunately this is wrong. Our society has formal and informal norms that nobody ever questions as to why and or when did start or become an acceptable answer. You can have a 3 million dollar wedding and not even be married. Why do people say "God bless you" when a person sneezes? It really depends on how you were raised and the values that have been embedded in you by your parents or the society you live in. Social norms are different everywhere.

As to your question. Since the beginning of our measured existence, humans have survived only because of food, water, shelter, and sex. It is what sustains life on our planet. Sex is a necessity in our world and should be treated as such. The lack of satisfaction of the proper mate and or desire for more has driven billion of couples to separation over the last 5000 years. I would tell you to ensure that you were compatible in that department before leaping into possible disappointment. I would also recommend that you never quit learning how to enjoy sex or providing pleasure to your partner. You don't even know if you crave the taste of his sperm. If it is bitter to your taste buds, then that is not a good start.

Good Luck

I agree, waiting until marriage to have sex is a good idea because you will not regret it (not saying that people that don't wait do) and you will know that you love that person and that they love you too.

i never have sex anymore so I masturbate with friends here

The more I think about, the more ridiculous it seems, but that's just me. Go back to wigsplitz comment. She knows what she's talkin about :)

I realize im taking this the wrong way but....

If i dont have sex after marriage then im def going to cheat because sex is the only way to keep me sane/ keep me in school. As for the whole religious thing where god wants you to wait or whatever, my take is that, well hey, a sex is an important aspect to a serious relationship, especially a married couple. That said I think getting to know your sexual characteristics will be vital in finding the woman you want to spend the rest of your life with. Sex before marriage=good. Sex after marriage=good.

marriage is for sheeple :)

I am 19 your old guy going on 20 and never had sex I will have sex whenever I get the chance but with my luck brobebly never.

Its just sex. I only sleep with girls that I like though,for some reason I can't be sexually attracted to a girl just because she looks good,or who I just met. It sux sometimes but I don't fight it lol

I think everyone can wait if they want to. It's really hard to wait till marriage for most people. But most people just don't want to, they don't really care. I am a virgin, but I highly dout I will be one when I get married. I am waiting to be in love and I also need to feel like I am ready. If that's what you feel like you should do then wait!

me n my fiance r waiting for marriage to have sex idk if i can wait much longer though we have cyber sex sometimes and we have masterbated with eachother but we never touched eachother....i dont care how good he is in bed he can get better if he isnt good practice makes perfect!..im so inlove with him!

I believe in sex after marriage but when I think about it just seems so unrealistic because recently it seems hard to find another guy/girl who hasn't already lost their virginity to a past girlfriend/boyfriend.

I can't help thinking..:
"What if you get married and then it turns out your partner is horrible in bed?"

..but then again you wouldn't know better.
Personally I think life is too short to only be with one person. I don't believe in divorce so the day I get married it's for better and for worse, gonna stick it out! So therefore i couldnt wait till after marriage.. heck I havent :)

And i completely agree with Wigsplitz. You'll be missing out not knowing whats actually good and what YOU like. Cause one partner will not be able to teach you that. Since everything in life comes from experience

I voted no because I dont believe in sex at all

Is it just me or is this poll drastically misworded?

I think he/she means, do you believe in waiting until marriage to have sex.

I have a feeling if the person asking the question was literate there would be a lot more "no" votes, here in (almost) 2012.

I think sex after marriage is best cos you are very sure of your love for that person. If you have sex before marriage and the relationship comes to an end I think it hurts most. Anyway, nobody's life is perfect so whether you have sex before or after marriage it all depends on who you're with, sex is for procreation but I still advice after marriage-its safer too.

Yes, I "believe" in sex after marriage.
I "believe" in it before marriage too.

I think if you wait to have sex until you're married, I think that's fine. But I also think that if you do choose to have pre-marital sex, it should be with someone you love and truly care about.