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I saw a party of drunk young women that were downtown dressed as sexy schoolgirls and they were getting lots of attention from men and when I was a teenager I was molested by a guy on the way home from school when I was in uniform.
Are us women the worst culprits for actually encouraging sexualisation of schoolgirls.
that's actually an interesting thought.
But here's the question do men like schoolgirl outfits because women sexualize them or do women wear schoolgirl outfits because men have sexualized them and they're looking for attention.
Seems like a chicken and egg thing to me.
I wondered the same thing but I do know that most schoolgirl uniforms look very good on women. Just like women like men dressed up and in suits. Perhaps it's a desire for something more decent compared to a group of ladies walking around in short shorts and crop tops. Maybe internally us guys feel that the skimpier a women's clothing the less we think of them and vice versa. No way of really knowing but I do love a woman in a uniform or dressed well compared to ripped jeans and tank tips
There is the point that teenage schoolgirls are perfectly aware that if they dress to thrill, by turning up skirts when in uniform (as Ive seen them do) etc, that they can get boy/men's attention and it all begins there.
I think men have school uniform fantasies/fetish type things, because high school is an extremely horny time for everyone involved, and that's usually around when your sexuality gets cemented into place. So the uniforms all their female classmates are wearing naturally become associated with sexual feelings in guy's minds. And that mental wiring can kinda linger on through adulthood.
So, yeah I think women do play on that sometimes. But they're not the source of it, imo. Are they the worst offenders for encouraging the sexualization of schoolgirls? Probably. I mean, who else encourages it?
It's not usually acceptable in any other situations that I know of.
Then again, the difference between an adult woman in a school uniform and an actual schoolgirl is usually pretty obvious and it's a big difference.
So... you know, does dressing in a kinky cat outfit encourage men to have sex with cats? I hope not.
The only people to blame are the molesters themselves. Pubescent schoolgirls can be pretty sexy but that doesn't give anybody the right to molest anybody!
It all boils down to how you were raised and how you grew up. Some people and their manners!