Do u think that maybe shes bi?

I went to stay with a friend and one nite we went to her mates place . I was plaaying pool and I overheard her say something about an ex gf and how she could hear her ocean (honestly think she was refering to a vag ) she was giggling to. We were all tipsy or drunk . Then I heard the person she was telling ask " Are u a little bi sexual"? She was like " Only on a good day". Idk if she was being serious or not and I waz surprised at hearing this and waz to nervous to ask her later on if she is. What do ues think ?

Sounds like she is 20
no I think she waz joking 13
idk 9
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  • stopandthink

    Dude, charli.m and you need to chill the fuck out.
    You're obviously concerned about her orientation as you seem to like her. I know you've said you're nervous about it, but the best way to go about this really is to ask her politely.
    Another option is her friend, the one she was talking to. You could ask that friend in secret but that's not going to be as accurate or simple as what I said first.

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  • ALESTORM

    Why not just ask in a polite manner of conversation

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    • Like I said I was nervous about the idea. I was also wondering because I think she may have had feelings for me.

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  • charli.m

    Was. waS for fucks sake...

    As for your question, you're a jerk for listening in on private conversations, and it's really none of your concern anyway.

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    • Excuse me but u are the same jerk commenting on other posts id made. Secondly it wasnt private when i waz practically only standing a few steps away and also the fact im her FRIEND! Im allowed to know u silly fool!

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      • charli.m

        Excuse ME, but I don't know which posts are yours, idiot. And I call a spade a spade.

        Or in your case, a dumb cunt a dumb cunt.

        If you're her FRIEND, why are you asking a bunch of internet people who have never met this person, instead of asking her yourself? Is it because you think she'll get pissed at your eavesdropping, perhaps?

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        • Whats your problem man? Are u having a shit of a day or something or do u just have anger issues? Because u seriously need to go to anger management before going onto sites where people are looking for actual advice and not a load of garbage. Im asking on here because I would like to get an idea to whether or not she is bi so as to not offend her otherwise. Afterall this is a site that u can seek help and besides a good friend wouldnt make another person feel awkward or posibly offended. Oh and you obviously dont know the definition of eavesdropping so u are either very young or have an extremly low IQ.
          Eavesdrop-When u secretly listen to a conversation. To clarify for the second time, I was standing in the same room only steps away and they were talking loud enough for anyone to hear and Was I standing outside the room against a door? NO

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          • So please take your disgruntled attitude else where because it is certainly NOT appreciated on this site.

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            • Incomplet

              Isn't that a little hypocritical of you? You're pretty disgruntled yourself.

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            • charli.m

              If you expect everyone to only give you the answers you want to hear, you're gonna have a hard life, princess.

              I just go by what YOU write, so maybe think about that, eh?

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    • those3simplewords

      You are such a rude ass! Take yourself else where if u are not going to give constructive feedback

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      • charli.m

        Work out not to post twice to the same comment, saying the same thing.

        It makes you look like a desperate attention whore.

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        • those3simplewords

          haha u have major issues if u get angry over such minute things.
          Im on my phone and its playing up u dumb ass

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          • charli.m

            It was six minutes between posts. That doesn't sound accidental to me.

            Why do you think I'm angry? This is how I talk. You racist.

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            • those3simplewords

              Well it was and I wouldnt lie about it either.
              If thats how u talk then you need to change it as it comes off like someone thats having a shit of a day no offense Mel

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  • RoseIsabella

    What difference does it make?

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    • nevertoreturn

      Alot

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      • RoseIsabella

        Why?

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        • nevertoreturn

          It will determine on whether I should tell her something or not. What do u think from going on what I wrote in my post ?

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          • RoseIsabella

            Maybe she bi curious only depending on how attractive some other chick is. Just ask her if she's bi if you're so hot on her, but be prepared that even if she is bi she just might not be into you, and that's okay. We all have a right to our opinions and preferences.

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