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I approached this guy i like.
hes shy..
i wrote him a note
and he seemed really happy about it.
HE gave me this big white toothed
smile.
Never had that before
anyways...
i told him he could call or email me
cause im interested in getting to know him
good thing or bad?
and will he even do it? because well shy guys are shy
or should i continue to keep being friendly?
Yeh i'm a guy and I used to be quite shy and i found it a lot easier to talk to girls on MSN or facebook or something. But if you do start talking to him online make sure you also talk to him for real as well or he will get to nervous to talk to you for real
Honey sometimes you need to take the bull by the horns so to speak I dated a guy like that all through high school and I got tired of waiting so I walked up to him said hi what's up shoved him against the wall and kissed him we were together ever sence it was a fun memory carpi diem
I'm really shy, and if this guy is like me, he would really appreciate it if you continued to take initiative. Eventually he'll come out of his shell with you and around you, and probably become less shy and love you for helping him out with it.
I'm a shy guy. Just keep talking to him. That's how I got my current girlfriend. She's also really helped boost my self confidence
My friends thought it was lame, I know I am in highschool and mature but I thought it was a nice thing to do.
He accepted it..
but question
Now he seems....... a little more self-conscious
is it normal?
Do shy guys contact or no?
should i just be patient?
it's normal for him to be self-conscious now that he's aware you are interested.
the only person who knows if he's going to contact you is him. everyone is different in every situation, so there's no answer as to whether or not shy guys contact.
it isn't lame. maybe give it a week, and try again, this time without your friends knowing. the friends knowing can be enough to put him off. good luck:)
i think you did the right thing. some people who are so shy, they need a little help, it's not that they don't want to get involved, the shyness stops them.
give it some time, then if he doesn't contact you, maybe another note is in order.
good luck:)
Give him a note asking him if he wants you to suck his cock. That should get you a reply!
Our world puts a lot of pressure on guys. I think it's good that there are some girls that'll make the first move. :) Go for it.
Just keep initiating him, if he's really shy you'll have to wait a while to get a good response from him, but keep trying to contact him.
ya I think i am jus gonna give up. he acts like he wants to talk to me but doesn't
and i cant read him.
Being a shy girl (especially around guys), I always found notes soooooo much easier than trying to actually talk in person (or even on the phone). Go notes! :)
But do you think he is interested?
I mean..
if he didn't like me ( he is aware of me )
he wouldn't have smiled like that..
like that smirk grin toothy smile
now that he is aware you are interested in him, the ball is in his court. the smile makes me think it's a good sign.
next time you see him, say "Hey, you owe me a note!"
I def will. Playfully flirting :P
Someone told me just because i gave him my email and stuff
doesn't mean he will call me.
He won't call its not that he isn't interested, he is, he's just 'very cautious'
because shy people want to be sure.
true?
That was me, very shy, and very cautious! I was watching TV on New Years Eve, watching the ball drop in Times Square. The girl watching with me was a friend, but otherwise nobody special, and she asked for a New Years kiss. I was thinking "where is this leading?" If I kiss her are things going to get out of hand? Is it going to go someplace I'm not ready to go to? She said, "well?" And I said, "I'm thinking". Next thing I know I'm waking up the next morning, still sitting on the couch in front of the TV, but she had left. By the time I got home from work the next day I had it all thought out, I realized she was a really special girl, and I was totally prepared to go wherever, with her. She got her kiss.
The best thing is to wait!
If he seemed haooy that you wrote it him then why wouldn't he?
I have to say good for you for doing it! It takes some doing!
Hope it works out!