Do people really dream of others who are thinking of them?

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I'm asking this cause I usually have dreams of people or situations I am thinking of. But sometimes the people in my dreams are just random like last night. Honestly out of everyone I didnt mind dreaming of these guys cause they are buddies yet Ive had intimate moments with both but not like yuck let me forget that! more like itd be nice to be with them again. Well that goes for one of them, the other is more of a friend than an intimate partner but any who. So I had a long dream about them last night and its not even like I was thinking of them, it was so random. Most of the dream though was about the guy I least think intimately of. He was trying to get me home but we tried twice because when we would say bye he always tried to pull a move on me and knowing me, I like affection, so we started kissing and it just felt so precious (I have a bf right now and I was still with him during the dream so I felt extremely guilty). Then we went on another journey and when we got to say bye he hugged me for so long I knew he was about to kiss me again I tried pulling back but the moment was so intimate that again, we started making out. I woke up and I'm like wow, I pretended to be with him because it just felt so good. But why was this dream abut what it was about if I wasn't even near thinking of these guys? or at least the main one? Then I thought could it be cause they or he's thinking of me? Since thats what Ive heard. You dream of someone whos thinking of you. Or does it have to do with my bf and I? Since I was basically cheating on him in the dream? But why with my friend? Not too long ago, I was feeling sort of explorable, like I wanted to have fun out of my relationship so maybe this dream was about that? but it was a while ago i felt that way. Can someone with good knowledge of dreams help me clear all of this out? maybe with some link or book that explains dreams very well :) I'm curious now.

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No I think its made up, no one knows why we dream of what we dream 36
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  • myboyfriendsbitch
    11 years ago

    Dreammoods.com

    Sometimes people dream of being intimate when they want a deeper friendship with a certain person.

    I believe if someone wants you to see them unconsciously they can make it happen with deep concentration, so maybe it can happen by accident too. I once visited a friend in a dream with the code word "watermelons" and she dreamed of me surrounded by watermelons. It was hard for me to remember the code word though, I guess because I was shifting consciousness.

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    • Wüstenfuchs
      11 years ago

      That... is pretty rad. o.O

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  • kylecation21
    11 years ago

    Did you know when you dream, and you see a person you don't know, somewhere in your life you have either seen or met them.

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  • Wüstenfuchs
    11 years ago

    I wish I had dreams like these... ;-; Last dream I had, I dreamt my alarm clock went off, and I woke up. Half an hour before my alarm clock was set to go off. I hardly ever dream, and when I do, it's mundane crap like that. I want dreams of intimacy... Where can I buy some? -.-

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  • Ldizzy1234
    11 years ago

    I'm not sure. I don't think anybody can really say. I feel like sometimes I get some weird premonitions and things in my dreams that later actually happen. Sometimes I see people in my dreams that I haven't seen in a while, and then suddenly see them a couple days later.

    But I do recall this one time having a falling out with this guy I was close with at the time. And I went through this period where I dreamt of his face, just kinda staring at me... a blank stare. And I remember having it over and over again. I'd dream of him and that blank stare that I only saw in my dreams at least 3 times every week. Until one day, one of the guys friends was saying how much he missed me. And thats when I thought... maybe he was thinking of me. But then again, maybe it was just me that was thinking so much of him, and thats why he appeared in my dreams. I don't know. Sorry I'm no help. I just thought I'd tell you I've thought of the same thing.

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