Do people get more attractive to you as you get to know them?

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If you like their personality that is. There have been so many times where there was someone I didn't find attractive,and then they ended up being very cute/good looking to me after talking to them. Is that really common?

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  • dirtybirdy
    8 years ago

    Definitely. It also works the other way around.

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    • victorygin
      8 years ago

      I was going to say the same thing; definitely experienced that a few times

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  • postmanlover
    8 years ago

    yeah I don't really notice what people look like right off the bat but if they are nice then doesn't matter much what they look like i think they are cute & want to hug them and kiss them (non-perverted)

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    I didn't love her because she was beautiful, she was beautiful because I loved her.

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    • ArmusWasTheFirstTroll
      8 years ago

      Go on. Tell her she is not objectively beautiful.

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      • Arm0se
        8 years ago

        I did. She had a bit of a break down and wouldn't stop insulting herself. I told her it didn't matter if other people thought she was ugly, because there could be no one more beautiful than her to me. It seemed to bring her back up a little.

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  • reminiscent
    8 years ago

    yeah.
    i always thought my bf i have now was kinda cute.
    he is a pretty hairy guy and i find too much hair to be unattractive... yet here i am 8 years later still with the same guy.
    its because everything about his personality is attractive. and so to me he is a very handsome man <3.

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  • peterrabbyt3
    7 years ago

    They get more attractive as you blow them!

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  • RoyRogers
    8 years ago

    No, there was someone I loved. I was head over heels for them and I did not find them attractive. However I started imagining how hot they would be if they were in better shape and super muscular. None the less I still loved them.

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  • CrimsonEye
    8 years ago

    If the more I get to know is the more I find familiar or get to like and appreciate, then this is great. If it shocks me knowing more, even then if I like the character of someone, his bad past would not deter me from being attracted or pursuing him.

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  • hurtmeno
    8 years ago

    Uuuurgh. Exactly why I fall so easily for people. Exactly why I am introverted. I fall in love with everyone I see. Making up little stories for them if I've never even talked to them. Lookin at her sitting at her desk..quaint and immersed in a mundane task.. "pass the stapler" "huh, oh...my bad, here u go"

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  • BluntnBored
    8 years ago

    Yes! If they have a good personality of course. Usually when they're funny I become more attracted to them.

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    The better I get to know someone the more I can see who they really are on the inside as opposed to just how they look on the outside.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    8 years ago

    This has happened to me a few times as well. They weren't physically attractive to me at all, but when I started to like their personality more and more, their physical features became 100% perfect to me. ♥

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