Do people call sex making love or do they call it having sex.

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As a woman i feel that having sex should be only called making love if you truely love the person your with. I hear loads of people just call it having sex or it was just a fling... I admit i've called it havng sex before but when i'm with my boyfriend i always call it making love.
Is it true that if your with someone for like a year and you still love them as much as you did the first time you got together that you'd still call it having sex or do you just not see it as anything more?
I'm bi and With all the girls i slept with i only ever called it making love once but with my boyfriend i always say we're making love.
What is making love?
and how do you make love?
and why call it just having sex if it means something very special to you?

So, is it normal to call it "making love" or not?

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  • PumpkinKate
    12 years ago | pl

    I have an entire tier list for sex:

    Making Love - The most intimate sex between people who are in love, and are sharing a sensual, bonding, love-making session.

    Having Sex - The more casual sexual encounter. This can be with someone you love, like a quickie before he/she goes to work for example. Or it can be casual sex with a close friend.

    Fucking - Energetic, raw & sexual. This is when lust takes over and you simply have to... fuck! Hot and heavy, and usually a tad on the rough side.

    Boning - Having sex for the sake of getting off, and not much else. Usually it's fast and furious, and you tend to cum and go.

    Getting Railed - Absolutely going at it as though you are both porn-stars. Rough and crazy!

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    • chewy
      11 years ago

      That's awesome.

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      • PumpkinKate
        11 years ago

        Duh, it was posted by me. Vicarious awesomeness.

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        • chewy
          11 years ago

          Long time no see.

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    • tentacleTherapist
      12 years ago

      Gotta save this list. XD

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    • crackdispenor
      12 years ago

      hey kate i do the making love first.. then i completey rail my girlfriend.. you gotta have the best of both worlds

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    • UnrecognizableMan
      12 years ago

      What if it starts with a sensual massage and ends with hair pulling n ramming against the wall?

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      • PumpkinKate
        12 years ago

        I see no reason why one shouldn't be able to progress into another :)

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      I like your tier list :) XD

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    In the eyes of many I'll die a virgin because I refuse to have sex. What I want to do is make love. I want to have a connection with someone that is emotional as well as sexual. People nowadays have sex just for the convenience and short lived pleasure it provides, it has no meaning. Sex should be something special between two people, not an act committed out of alcohol or peer pressure.

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  • aussiewolf
    12 years ago

    i call it fucking.. what would you rather hear? "come here babe and make love to me" or "come here babe, i wanna fuck the shit out of you!"

    either way its all the same. you still are sticking your sausage in the bun.

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  • bunnydude
    12 years ago

    I normally either say fucking, or "can I squirtle on your jigglypuffs?" if she's into pokemon and stuff.

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  • admirer
    12 years ago

    "Making love" implies slow, gentle, cuddly, barely-sex. When my boyfriend is yanking me by my hips back & forth while I'm on all fours or I'm bouncing up & down in his lap, we're fucking. The only love-making we do happens after the fact when I'm too worked to so much as stand on my own two feet & that's the way I like it.

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    • ForgetWeMet
      12 years ago

      that's how it is best.
      Well said.

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      • admirer
        12 years ago

        Thank you.

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  • Rufus
    12 years ago

    I believe the term is "fornication".

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  • michaels4p5
    11 years ago

    Lets fuck either way its the same i suppose so.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    well i'd call it fucking

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  • Who_Fan4Life
    11 years ago

    I call it ''making sex.''

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  • Wambo37
    11 years ago

    sex

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  • randomcheez
    12 years ago

    Depends if ur a slut I don't think u would call it making love cuz u don't have to love the guy but if ur a normal girl u can call it either one

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  • silver_tears8805
    12 years ago

    Well I'm young but Ill help with your question. Making love is very different from just sex first off. Sex is more like lust, just to get your rocks off. Sex is not as meaningful , quick and leaves u feeling hollow and possibly used. I don't truly understand how people can just have "sex" I don't think it would feel as great! Making love can be the most romantic and amazing experiance you can ever have in life. Making love is being so close to somone u have no fears and have complete trust and they put your needs ahead of there's and treat u like a treasure. Making love is gental and tender full of emotion and you'll feel satisfied weither or not u finish. It's being so close that u don't know where he/she starts and wer you begin. Connecting your souls , minds and bodys is making love. It is one of the most beutiful and loving things a man and woman can do. I'm in my teens still but I have truly felt such an amazing feeling and love my man unconditionaly. Almost Every one deserves to find such happiness :) good luck

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    the more i like the person the faster i cum!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    i want rough sex when i make love and slow sex when im not.... i say it can b eather way.... just know making love is only when u love eachother... sex is when u like eschother.. and fucking is just for fun...

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  • eggsandbacon
    12 years ago

    this is a really good question..me and my boyfriend been together for 6 years nn we make love(slow,soft,sweet,tender,passionate,loving) nn have sex(hard,nasty,biting,lickin,suckin,screamin,fast)..like really it all depends on how we feelin..how much time..where we doin it

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  • smojoe92
    12 years ago

    Different people, different meanings.

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  • milkymum
    12 years ago

    i prefer just to be fucked, sometiems to be told that im going to be fucked but most feels good just being riden hard n rough

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  • kit291
    12 years ago

    well i'd like them to say 'come here make and love to me' then i know their not thinking about having sex with somone else. where as 'come here and let me fuck the shit out of you' is just going to be quick and they really just want somewhere to stick there cock for a little while.

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    • [Old Memory]
      11 years ago

      yeah

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    both

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  • blueyesamy
    12 years ago

    i wanna put my beef in your taco...XD sorry off a movie....

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  • Dad
    12 years ago

    Eddie Murphy says it best.

    Well think about it.
    When you get into bed would you want somebody to say, "Oh make love to me"?
    Or grab the back of your head and say, "Fuck the shit out of me"?

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  • Mike-4-U
    12 years ago

    PumpinKate. You have it well explained. I fully agree

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  • graphic_nature
    12 years ago

    I usually say "have sex" or "fuck" because "making love" sounds too mushy.

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  • Audrina
    12 years ago

    I agree with aussiewolf. I prefer to say/hear fuck. It is nice to hear my husband say that he wants to make love but a "Hey let's fuck!" is SO much better! The actions that follow are almost always a lot more fun when I hear fuck.

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  • MrJusticeXD
    12 years ago

    MAking love last hours and means something. Has connotative weight. Sex is dirty hot and fast xD Little connotative weight.

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I like the term "making love" better, it actually sounds special then.

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