Do most girls want bad boys?

I feel like girls today like bad boys, and when I say bad boys I mean criminals. Not really murderers but merely guys that aren’t afraid to fight people, steal, drink, do drugs and are in gangs. I ask my friends about what type of guy certain attractive women like and most say “she likes bad dudes”. I also feel like that certain girls, like the ones that like premarital sex, drink and party are attracted only to these bad dudes and only the “boring” girls aren’t, this sucks cause I love partying, drugs and drinking but I hate crime.I am 20 yrs old and the girls I am talking about are 18-20. What do u guys think about this?

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  • leggs91200

    Often the reason women date scum bags is the woman thinks she is going to clean him up, make him into some kind of civilized gentleman etc.

    They see it as a "project" of sorts.

    Problem is, seldom do men change. Plus if she gets pregnant, he is not usually going to stick around so her life and future chances of finding a partner are now ruined.

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  • ellnell

    Not really. Young and inexperienced girls maybe because they're insecure and don't realize that you can find excitement in other ways. Just like men often pick bad girls although that is not as greatly discussed because as usual only women get shit on over poor decisions.
    Most women want a kind, caring man who's not a pushover which is pretty much the regular decent guy.
    And normal people certainly don't wanna date criminals, I don't know in what kind of a neighbourhood you live in to even think so.

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    • leggs91200

      "Just like men often pick bad girls although that is not as greatly discussed because as usual only women get shit on over poor decisions."

      The reason is this - women get with who they want but men get with who they can.

      Since even an average woman has a pretty wide selection, it is a shame when she picks dirt bags.

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      • ellnell

        Nah there's definietely men who has a choice chooses bad girls.
        I think most who ends up with some bad don't do it on purpose. Most truly awful people hide it well and act like a gentleman until you're so deeply involved it's hard to leave because you've been manipulated and already developed emotions too.
        Then there are those who choose bad guys on purpose but they're usually quite young, or very immature for their age and do it for the excitement. Most people don't wanna get treated badly, especially women as we by nature are nurturing, likes the idea of "fixing" someone or being special to some bad guy meaning he'll treat her like a queen and they'll be bad together. Same type of people who thinks that Joker and Harley Quinn are ~goals~.

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      • Bazinga

        I've heard girls say that dirt bags taste good like junk food.

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  • --

    They like bad boys when they are younger and want fun. After shitting out a few kids they want a guy in a biz suit who has money

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    • leggs91200

      Once a woman has even one kid, her chances of any sort of solid relationship drop to that of an average male. That means she is then going to struggle with the things men deal with like plenty of rejection, being ghosted, having to settle...

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  • bbrown95

    It really depends on the girl, but some girls (more typically young ones who are generally pretty naïve about life) have a fantasy of taming a bad boy and think they can change a guy like this, or be the "different" or "special" one in his life he doesn't treat like shit. Of course, they usually end up heartbroken.

    I've also noticed that people tend to gravitate to people whose acceptance they feel they have to earn. Think about it; people are often more likely to treat those who they know love them, are there for them, and who they don't have to impress with disrespect (especially taking advantage of them) or at least be less considerate of them than they are towards people who will ditch their asses in a heartbeat once they no longer have any use for them. There's something about human nature that, I guess, craves acceptance from people it's hard to earn it from, or likes the challenge of it.

    For me, I have no use for that crap. I'm happily single anyway and am not sure I'll be looking for a relationship at least anytime soon, but I definitely don't want a "bad boy" thug.

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  • my_life_my_way

    I’m an 18 year old girl and I’m into bad boys and especially guys who are violent criminals/murderers.

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    • bbrown95

      Why? Especially murderers!?

      Are you by any chance the same person who posted about having a fantasy of being raped and murdered?

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      • my_life_my_way

        Yes, that post was mine lol. I just like guys who are dangerous and violent over the ‘nice guys’ who usually aren’t as exciting and thrilling to be with.

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        • bbrown95

          You do realize the thrill will be over if they kill you though, right?

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          • my_life_my_way

            The thought of that sorta turns me on though, one final, violent, thrilling, sexual experience

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            • bbrown95

              The thing is, it will likely be excruciatingly painful and unenjoyable. Plus, is that worth giving up the rest of your life for?

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  • PleaseTalkToMe

    Girls don't like men

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  • BleedingPain

    I like the “bad ass” type, not “bad boy”. Badass imo, is someone who can pull off being a nerd during the day, but tasteful Dom at night.

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  • Tingles18

    I'm someone who is into BDSM stuff, and I really really tend to fantasize about bad guys doing me all sorts of naughty stuff.

    And yes, literally criminals. And fictional villains are sooooo great as well. Can't resist them villainz mmm.

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  • SmokeEverything

    Partying drugs and drinking are awesome but crime is also awesome. Especially when mixed with drugs and drinking. Start with small crimes so you get better at it, and you'll get all the fun girls.

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  • bigbudchonga

    Ye man. I think they don't really necessarily want you to go out and punch dudes, but they want to know you're capable of it. They don't really want the male-feminist "nice guys" who think they're doing everything right by simping it. Just don't be like that kind of dude; have some balls, show you've got them, and you should be fine.

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  • litelander8

    Be bad. But should still be a gentleman.

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    • Reeve

      What do u mean?

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      • --

        She means ride a harley, punch a dude in the face but still open doors, and ladies first type attitude.

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        • litelander8

          Yes. Thank you.

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  • Mammal-lover

    Generally but I find those types aren't sensitive or open enough for my personal tastes. My sister seems to like guys like that

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    • --

      I'm no gang member or anything like that, but compared to most normal people I'm a bad boy, whats ya sister up to, hook us up?

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      • Mammal-lover

        Shes only dating girls right now haha. My coworker found out the hard way. Poor guy

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        • --

          I was with a bi chick once that never tried women again after me. ah hummm

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          • Mammal-lover

            Lawls ok man. Besides I dont want any of yalls going near my family. Last thing I need is this websight seeping into my personal life

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