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Guys: Do you every worry or wonder if you have a kid somewhere out there in the world that you don't know about?
I have to wonder what it must be like for a guy. Can you guys please comment?!
| No, I don't think about this. | 16 | |
| No, because I'm a virgin. | 30 | |
| I occasionally think about this. | 13 | |
| I often think about this. | 2 | |
| I'm scared to death of this being true! | 3 |
What if a girl worried that she had a kid somewhere in the world that she didn't know about?
This may shock you, but not every guy goes around and anonymously fucks every woman he can get his hands on.
So, how does this affect your daily life?
And, why did you get into it if you didn't want it (assuming you didn't want it, sorry if that's an incorrect assumption)
I was tricked, I dated a girl, she stopped taking the pill and thought it would be a great idea to keep fucking me but not mention it.
And I have always made clear I never want to have kids, I have what you'd call a "black out" temper and that is not good when raising children.
As for how it affects me, it doesn't much really. The only problem I have is sometimes I feel bad for the kid, being innocent and all that, but it's not what I'd call a strong feeling. Except for sudden agitation I don't have big "rises and dips" of emotion like most people, some can tell there's something off within a minute of meeting me.
It runs in my family you see, my mom once said that she can't remember being hugged once as a child.
Do you wish you could be there to shape the child's personality, values and beliefs or does that not bother you?
The child that you're unsure about, what's that like? Do you know the child exists and just aren't sure if it's yours or is it more of a situation where you had unprotected sex and don't even know for sure if there's a child at all?
Thanks for answering, btw.
I know I have one kid out there that don't know about me. His mother ran off with some guy and her family don't know where they are, or say they don't. But I wonder if there might be at least two!
Smoking lowers your sperm count. Think of it as a form of birth control and light up.
I'm only with my own gender, so luckily no chance of anything like that happening to me. ;)
It crosses my mind from time to time, but I am in somewhat close contact with all the women I have slept with. They would have to be pretty good at covering it up for me not to know or at least heard about it.
"James, you are NOT the father"
James - " Yeah Yeah Yeah , HELL YEAH, i knew it!"
(starts dancing)
I might have a kid somwhere in a jungle in Madagascar where I had unprotected sex with a local girl.
i ve thought about it..it crosses my mind evry so often....i would hate some screwed up 18 or 20 something to knock on my door and said i was never there for them when i had no chance to be....
I have actually asked a few guys with and they told me that they haven't been with that many women but they know that they used protection so they aren't worried. I'd be...