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Am just wondering why risk a whole life time commitment with someone that you don't love? Because most affairs ruin marriages.. Just a thought..
A majority of them do not love the mistress. They think they can have their cake and eat it too. Without getting caught.
People like that are selfish and cowardly. Either leave the marriage or quit cheating and work on the marriage. I think people who feel so much entitlement to do whatever the freak they want regardless of how hurtful and deceptive it is are probably at least somewhat antisocial/sociopathic. It's like they have no soul.
Agreed! That's just being selfish, why have multiple women and lie to one every single day how you love her, yet you screwing others. People like that deserve bad Karma.
Thanks, I'm glad to see I'm not alone in my convictions. My current guy wasted five years of his life with a an awful woman who repeatedly cheated on him. I think people like that are the scum of the earth. Honestly I flush more valuable material down the toilet everyday. My first ex cheated on me with a cunt from his work, and it was over for me within hours after I found out.
I could never stay with a cheater! I was so pissed off that I punched him several times, but to be completely honest it was her I wanted to hurt the most, because she knew he was married. I felt like I was trespassed on if that makes any sense. I did confront her within hours after he confessed, it scared the shit out of her and I made her cry. I know it sounds mean and wrong, but I really enjoyed the confrontation, her tears were delicious.
In the end he told me I should work for the government, because I had done such a good job extracting his confession. To this day I still take it as a supreme compliment, and yes, I made him cry too. I also took his wedding band which had some diamonds in it. I didn't steal it, I demanded it and he gave it too me.
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I had a wife who cheated on me too , I punched her a few times and I think she stopped.
Wow.. It really sucks to be the other woman. But I wonder how some cultures allow men to be polygamous, like the Africa traditional society, like south Africa for instance, the king gets a different woman like every year. I just wonder how would someone allow themselves to be number one or two three or four.. Or just line up for one man.. That's not love to me..
Yeah, think the other woman and or the other man deserves a special type of Hellfire to come down hard upon her or him when they're actually aware that they're messin with someone who's married. It's one thing when they don't know the piece of shit they're messin with is married, but that was not the case in my situation. That fat, ugly, bleach blonde whore had been to my house, she'd eaten my food, drank my rum and played with my animals. My husband lived that special lie where he said, "we're just friends" and I was way too naive and trusting. He was storing that stupid cunt's liquor in our home in my refrigerator, because the stupid, Southern Baptist, hypocritical whore still lived with mommy and daddy in her mid-twenties, and they thought alcohol was sinful and whatnot.
As far as polygamous societies are concerned I don't care if they're African, Middle Eastern or FLDS (Fundamentalists Mormons)those are all inferior cultures and societies. I don't believe that all cultures and societies are equal or that polygamous ones deserve respect or even the right to exist. Polygamy is always wrong in my eyes.
I personally believe that much of so called cultural diversity and political correctness is actually a scourge upon civilization. Moral relativism is total bullshit that people latch onto, because it gives them a license to forget about right and wrong. Good and evil are eternal regardless of whether humanity still recognizes them.
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They think they can keep the financial and emotional security with a partner and get a piece of hot meat.
ALL MALES are PIGS when in need of something to help them dump their SPERM!! And thank God for them.
I honestly think people who are habitually unfaithful have a serious problem! They're either mentally ill sex addicts who need to get into recovery STAT or soulless human garbage. Seeing as how we all have free will the choice is theirs to either get help and improve themselves or knowing continue their selfish, wrongful, hurtful and immoral ways! NO EXCUSES!
Karma's a bitch, but that's why I love it!
No, I think they're just bored in their marriages and want some excitement.
It's normal for the male of the species to seek suitable females to procr,ate. This is why an older male will be more sexually attracted to a fi healthy young female than to one of his own age. She will be better at procreation .This is true for all mammals and animals. It is us as humans who have interfered with God's design.
Personally I don't agree with people who have affairs , I couldn't do it , I know it destroys many marriages.
"why risk a whole life time commitment with someone that you don't love?"
Contrarily, "if you really love your mistress, why not leave your wife"
I think there's a few answers here...
We can love more than one person at a time.
People make mistakes.
Is monogamy mostly a social construct?
Sex =/= love.
Loving relationships sometimes lack sex.
We can "love" more than one person at a time, but we can't be infatuated with more than one person at a time.
This isn't about "love". It is about a man in a committed relationship who wants to act single. He chases that "falling in love " feeling and leaves his matriarch "mommy" wife alone at home. The wife is his anchor that allows him to chase young woman.
That is the betrayal. That is being an asshole.