Do little things your girlfriend says start to annoy you?

Every guy gets annoyed by the little things that their girl does, but all they're just that, little things. I guarantee, of all the things you thought were so cute at the beginning about 90% of them are going to annoy the hell out of you in the future. The same goes for how she feels about the things you do. The trick is to look beyond those petty annoyances and see the real person that's there. If you care for her enough, those little thiings she does won't seem to matter as much, well, not until she does it again. Before doing anything drastic, just ask yourself, "Is letting the annoying little things she does get to me worth losing her forever?" I guarantee, once she leaves, you'll really miss them. If they really are that bad of an issue, sit down and talk to her about them. She'll most likely be understanding and at least make an honest effort to stop doing some of them, but like any habit, they'll be hard to break. Sometimes an honest effort is all you'll get, but at least you'll know she tried for you which is way more than some guys get.

leave the toilet seat up

Court someone? God, maybe a girl might like that but the boys just want sex usually and aren't prepared to wait. My bf finds sayings I say, or my winking, etc annoying and he told me so, perhaps too bluntly. But only his contestant crying annoys me and I told him so in a fight so he still does it. I know he loves me but I wish he would just put up with me and my pms and my depression and my hyper moods :(

Sounds like to me you haven't taken the time to really get no know her. Before you make things official, you need to curt someone to get to see them for who they are.

It's not just guys, believe me- A lot of girls I know have this problem too. You can choose to keep her around or you can choose to dump her, but to me (And I'm just guessing here) it sounds like the relationship might have been pretty superficial in the first place. I'm not saying that you didn't actually like her in the beginning but that maybe you should try and be with someone that you can actually enjoy deep, meaningful and intelligent conversation with. I know that some guys are too proud or intimidated to date girls that are more intelligent than they are, but maybe give it a shot. Rather than getting someone that makes you think "Aw, that girl is cute and hot", you could subconsciously want someone that makes you think something more along the lines of "Wow, this woman is smart and cool and I want to keep speaking with her."

Whether you stick through and ignore these annoyances is a reflection of how strong and important to you the relationship is. If you have to quit because they bug you, the relationship/steamysex was weak.
Love is compromise and adaptability.

yes! , well, i think its normal, i get annoyed with someone i'm dating really really quickly, soon enough every little thing they do annoys the crap out of me, that i used to find cute of endearing. i dont know why it happens, maybe you dont like her enough? sucks ass though.