Do i need to continue seing him after all??

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Hi, We've been 1yr with my boyfriend he was actually my 1st bf.I met him in net we chatted for almost a week & end up giving him my contact no.w/c I never did to my previous friend in chat.to make the story short he asked me to go out with him for a lunch & brought me to his house.after the 1st date I said to myself it will not be happen again. I dont want to fall inlove again coz falling inlove is like killing myself again ,Ive just move on with my best friend who dumped me after 2 yrs.& that was misserable time for me.Now that I moved on,here I am again inlove with a guy who seems doesnt love me in return the way I love him.Recently, we chatted and told me tht we will just see each other but not in his place where we used to do it everytime we met.I was still virgin lol! sounds weird but thts true.he asked me if am ready to give him my virginity I said yes coz I love him but I will be more happy if after marriage.That he made it clearly that no wedding will going to be happened.It hurts though I knew that he was just true to me & doesnt want to hurt me to stop me from my thougts about marriage. I really like & love this guy and I want to get Rid of him but I can't.He is alwys in my thoughts everyday ,every minutes ,every second.PLs I need help what should I do. I love him and wanted to continue loving him.

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  • Twarrior
    12 years ago

    Your just a typical woman. Leaving a good man because you have a taste for the douche. You have attachment issues.

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    • lonelygirl2011
      12 years ago

      to twarrior, Thanks I think I deserve someone who loves me or accept me for who I am.We're very much attached with each other yes. I understand why he cant marry me maybe because am Asian and hes not.

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  • red_gal_85
    12 years ago

    im sorry but im having a really hard time making any sense from what your saying here, I doubt you will want to here what i have to say or but it sounds like your much to young to be in a relationship especially one as serious as a sexual one, you should wait a few years trust me if you have sex before your ready you will regret it for the rest of your life especially if you know this guy doesnt care for you like you do him trust me you WILL regret it, but you wont regret not having sex with him, someday you will look back and feel really proud!, Someday you will find someone who loves you back just as much you deserve it hun!! And he will be worth waiting for, i dont want you to have regrets llike i do or most of the women i know its up to you to decide what you want to do in your life but remember there is more to sex then just doing it you have to remeber there are diseases or pregnacy, if your not ready to raise a baby your not ready to have sex

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    • lonelygirl2011
      12 years ago

      Hi there ,thanks for your comments what am really trying to say is I really like this guy all the qualities that I was looking for with a guy I found it with him I can even say almost hes perfect.That he made me fell inlove with him.Despite of all I knew I dont hav future with him.I wanted to stop seeing or dating him but I cant resist everytime he asked me to go out.I didnt regret by not having sex with him tht I must be proud of it I still have it till this time.I think we can have sex at a right time with the right person.

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