Do i find my gay best friend more than that?

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I'm a girl and my best friend is gay. We sometimes drool over the same guys and were always making jokes about him acting like a girl all the time. The thing is, whenever he stays over my house it feel different somehow. He sits on my lap, which I'm fine with, but one time I swear he put his head on my boob on purpose. I told him to watch it and the guys might get jealous but he pulled away and said that he was ashamed with himself and that he was sorry. It was a confusing reaction I must say.

He likes to lay on my bed with me. My computer is at the end of my bed so I lay down against the wall and he lays right next to me, but so there is no space between us at all. There is pleanty of room for space, but its always so my boobs are pressed right up against his back or something. Another instance is the last time he came over. I was laying down on my sofa and he was sleeping on the matress on the floor and he just got up and layed down on me. Im talking FULL ON on top of me. If not for the cover it would have been extremely intimate.

Last time he came over for a sleepover he kept touching and like caressing, a little bit more than friendly I think. I'm not sure at all. I could be over analysing everything, but things seemed a little different. When he was sitting next to me on the computer he looked a little uncomfortable and I swear I got the vibe that he was having trouble in the nether reigons, but I just ignored it and thoguht I was being stupid again.

Last time he came over he took his shirt off and to my shock I found him attractive. I found myself wanting to stroke his spine when he face away from me, but it wasnt certain attraction, more casual like 'i wonder what the skin on his back feels like'. I've always wanted to kiss and lick his hands, but that could just be down to my hand fettish.

In all truth, I love my best friend deeply, but I dont know if my feelings are starting to change. He's gay, but never had a male sexual partner, he just says he finds the male sex attractive.

Any opinions on this?

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  • Murrdurrurr
    13 years ago

    Any or you heard or "bisexuality?"

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    • Murrdurrurr
      13 years ago

      Of!!!!!!

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  • Ha-Rim
    13 years ago

    What kind Gay he is? Is he "girly gay"?? Or "manly gayboy"??

    If he girly gay, i dont think that u should love him, it would ruin his or her life in future.

    If he manly gayboy, it extremly good for girl becouse they are manly, gentlement.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      he can be very girly. hes feminine, but very very polite. a really nice guy. i will always love him :L its just confusing what KIND of love it is.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    He's a lesbian

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  • Diver2
    8 years ago

    He's fucking you around and saying he's gay so he won't feel bad if you reject him meanwhile he gets to hang out with you and enjoy you. Believe me when you suck him off and fuck him with that gorgeous body of yours he will be in love with you for sure.

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  • k1d
    10 years ago

    He's bi or confused

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  • fulleffect
    13 years ago

    Is he very openly gay? I've had friends come out and then started dating girls, pretending they were interested. He might be trying to get people who he's not comfortable with knowing to think he's straight by acting "together" with you. Whatever it is, you should talk to him about it. Then again, I've also known gay guys who were very touchy feely people, but they act touchy feely with girls because a lot of straight men don't appreciate being touched by gay men.

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  • EnchantedSpirit
    13 years ago

    I think you should ask hima bout it. Maybe he has feelings but thinks you will think it's weird for you becaus eyou know he is gay, Some people change your mind about your sexuality

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    I am a gay best friend and im sure hes fine he sounds genuine P.S can i have his number :P

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    just so you all know, he recently admitted that hes insecure in his description of'gay' now, because he said hes starting to see girls differently and he doesnt feel for certain that hes definately gay.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    A lot of queers will touch women so don't let him play dumb

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  • Xan_11
    13 years ago

    If he says he is gay and he is your good friend I think you have to take him at his word and believe him. Once you start looking for little things like this you will keep finding them no matter what and just drive yourself crazy.

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  • chaosdragoon1
    13 years ago

    Gay but never had a male partner? Is that a failure to launch or was he really just bi-curious? My real question is did he choose to be gay sometime after a break-up with a girl or did he just choose to claim he was gay. To be honest he sounded like he was wavering from the start.

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  • Ha-Rim
    13 years ago

    Its good that u love him that mean u care about him. Some people hate gays and dont want to talk with them or befriend or either dont want to call him as his/her son (most of cases in China & Indonesia, for some reason ).

    You are a very goodfriend to him. Try to make him change. Maybe he just Bisexual. Convince him.

    My bestfriend are taking Doctorol in Seoul National University,Korea.. He said gay,bi,les or other are just a normal act for teen like us.

    And Do you know BOY are realy hard to be in love while GIRL are so fast to be in love?

    I think that the reason he like that.
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    P.S sorry for broken english, im not fluent.

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