Do i dump him or stay with him?

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I have a friend who ive known for a really long time since I was 4. He asked me out when I was 10, we went out once and then i 'dumped' him. Somehow we got back together and are 'going out'. he lives really far, he doesnt go to my school, hes my little brothers best friends (hes my age) and when I do see him he comes and stays over for a few nights. he kissed me once, but it was a bad kiss and it lasted less than a second. He is also still very childish, and smaller than me in height :P (but he will grow soon). I am so close with his sister and mum, they are family friends. He can be really sweet but he doesnt have Facebook, msn or even email so the only time i can talk to him is when i eventually see him. What do you think. Do i dump him?

Dump him immediately! 15
Let him know over time that I dont want to be together 15
Stay with him until he dumps me 4
Make him get msn and stay in touch 22
Other (Add a comment) 11
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  • bigtoy
    12 years ago

    Isn't this site supposed to be for over 18's? Sounds like these two are 11 ffs!

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    • Hmmaybe
      12 years ago

      Please don't be agist. The age restriction on the site is for legal purposes because there are some very adult discussions here. However pretending that U18s don't need clarification of their normality or other help that this site can offer is ludicrous.

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      • bigtoy
        12 years ago

        Yeah, you're quite right. They probably need the help more than we do! my bad...

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    • pixie_dust
      12 years ago

      no shit.. sounds like she wears a training bra and idolizes justin bieber

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  • Jerid
    12 years ago

    dont dump him, he is cute ain't he? IF YOU HATE HIS KISS THEN WHEN HE COMES GRAB HIS SHOULDERS THROW HIM AT THE BED AND MAKE OUT ANTILL HIS MOUTH HURTS (having sex is a part of the workout)!, then download him a msn and make him go home, then chat,and video chat, and kiss the camara, and invite him, then do it agai (if you do these exact steps, then skip the dowloading part)!

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago

      ^
      What they said.

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    I think you are young and unless you're looking to replace him, you are probably nice friends for the moment. Eventually, one of you will move on, don't worry about it!

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  • SillyKitty55
    12 years ago

    long distant relationships usually never work out.
    if you feel uncomfortable kissing him, practice with him. or get a new bf.

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  • Aleks85
    12 years ago

    Go to a kids website jeez, where are your parents?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    Other:

    From what you've written, I think you've already decided what you want to do and are now just trying to gain support for your choice.

    Perhaps that's something to consider...

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  • Death_Rises
    12 years ago

    some ppl arent right for eachother but yeah tell him to get a msn

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  • UliNalaMansae
    12 years ago

    you're a kid, you'll grow up.

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  • XxxSecretShandaxxX
    12 years ago

    If you're happy, stay with him.

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  • Shackleford96
    12 years ago

    It sounds like you have a very special relationship with this person. I would not just throw that away if I were you, but I would talk to him though and tell him how you are feeling. I am pretty sure he doesn't want to lose you either.

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