Do guys really care that much about weight? iin?

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Hi! I was wondering, do guys really care tht much about a girls body & weight? I feel self concious about this alot. My friend is skinnier than me & alot of guys hit on her even tho her face is realllly unattractive. I get told I'm really pretty alot, but guys and alot of girls. I've always struggled with my weight though, I feel like guys don't like chubby girls even if they're pretty, is that true? I know I'm prettier than my friend (not trying to sound bitchy or cocky) and I have a great personality (as I'm told) also, I honestly think personality is the most important, sure appearance is important and it draws attention but a great personality is very attractive an can lead to sexual attraction, for me & my friends point of view too.

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  • SkullsNBones
    10 years ago | pl

    "Eww, she doesn't have a thigh gap!" Said no man ever.

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  • anti-hero
    10 years ago | pl

    To a degree but as long as it isn't extremely overweight then it's fine.

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    10 years ago

    In my experience, men are more attracted to the general body shape I woman has than skinny and not skinny. I'd hate to get scientific but waist to hip ratio is a better indication of attractiveness as far as body type goes than anything. Narrow waist to larger hips tends to be the biggest turn on for men in that department. Some extra pounds won't deter attractiveness if they're in a placement conducive to this.

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  • GreyWulfen
    10 years ago

    Really skinny girls are just... no.
    I'm okay with pretty much any other body shape, as long as it is not extremely overweight.

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago

    Nope, skinny girls are a major turn off for me.

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  • handsignals
    10 years ago

    I like em thick and juicy so don't pilate nothing!

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  • ThousandPoundsOfGanja
    10 years ago

    My favorite weight class is like 120-150, I don't like overly skinny girls unless (sad to say lol) they have big tits like a 5' 110 lbs chick with like Ds asks me out, I probably won't say no and like if the extra weight over 150 is in the ass or tits, I'm all in :D

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  • melissa0511
    10 years ago

    i'm 5'3 and i weigh 125..

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    • AbnormallyAwesome
      10 years ago

      Are you the OP? Because according to your BMI your closer to being under then overweight but your neither.

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      • melissa0511
        10 years ago

        no, i'm not the OP, i would never trash my best friend to make myself sound better.

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    • bewwolliwhtom
      10 years ago

      I am 5'3" and 230...I still get hit on all the time. I suspect guys don't care as much as women think.

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      • shuggy-chan
        10 years ago

        Shortie, I'm like a whole foot taller then u =P

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  • imadragon
    10 years ago

    If a guy hits on you because of your appearance, what is he worth? I wouldn't go out with a guy like that, never. Personality is all that matters.

    Guys probably care as much about weight as girls do.

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  • Shrunk
    10 years ago

    Pretty much stopped reading after you called your friend unattractive just to make yourself sound better.. You sound so annoying.. Stop eating so much and exercise more, then maybe you won't feel a need to trash your friends while blabbering on about yourself

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    • Kenzieboo1234
      10 years ago

      Lol, I sound annoying. Boo you've never met me. You sound like a little cunt. I'm not talking shit sayin oh that bitch is fucking ugly. I just said her face isn't attractive? Looks are NOT everything. Especially in a friendship. Her personality makes her my friend, not her face.

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      • Shrunk
        10 years ago

        LOL i'm pretty sure you're not even old enough to be allowed on this site.

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  • Terence_the_viking
    10 years ago

    As long as most of the weight is in your bra. That's ok with me.

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    • melissa0511
      10 years ago

      what about in the underwear? for the ass? lol.

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      • Flatulophiliac
        10 years ago

        Yes that's a GREAT place to have extra weight as well as the bra as mentioned earlier & thighs are a sexy place to have a bit of thickness

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      • Terence_the_viking
        10 years ago

        i'd rather get crushed by the twin peaks of terror.

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    • bosslady714
      10 years ago

      So if a chick has huge saggy tits down to her knees, that are covered in stretch marks, ur good with that?

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  • Kenzieboo1234
    10 years ago

    I'm not meaning to trash my friend. I'm being HONEST. Alot of people say she's unnatractive, I love her no matter what. In my opinion she doesn't have an attractive face. I'm not trying to make myself sound better what so ever. Just like if she said I was overweight. I know it, but I can change it if I try hard enough. She's beautiful to me because of her personality. I look past the appearance. I was speaking as if It was based soley on appearance.

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  • ygrowup
    10 years ago

    Guys care, but all kinds of guys have different preferences for a girls weight

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  • AbnormallyAwesome
    10 years ago

    I think I speak for a lot of men if I say a woman needs to have some curves. They don't need to be immense but bones just aren't that sexy.

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  • Maki_P
    10 years ago

    In my experience guys don't care that much about weight. In fact I've heard that some girls get more attention after gaining some weight

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