Do guys really care ?

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I've always hated my appearance. I'm coming to terms with it. But I really hate my teeth. They have been straightened with braces but have slipped back. They just look a mess :( but it's so expensive to get braces !
Also I've never had a boyfriend so it worries me that I'll never get one :( been on dates and been asked out but not much :(
So, is appearance everything ? Of course we all like different things and we all see each others looks differently, in terms of I might think Someone looks hot and others might think they're not too nice looking.

Worried, worried all the time :(

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  • thegypsysailor
    8 years ago

    As they say, beauty is in the eye of the beholder.
    Stop fretting, it will be fine. None (well, very few) of us are completely satisfied with our looks and we'd all like to change some things.
    Relax. I'm sure there are guys out there who'd love to be your friend, but they are too shy to approach you. The best thing you can do is understand that we guys are just as insecure about our looks as you gals, so don't be too judgmental when a guy that doesn't look like Brad Pitt approaches you and wants to chat.

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    Ofcourse appearance is important but they're not "everything".

    You have messed up teeth. I wouldn't think that would make you look terrible. Ofcourse not everyone will be able to look past it but the amount of guys that will dismiss you as a romance partner due to it is slim in my opinion.

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  • Cuntsiclestick
    8 years ago

    I have spaced teeth and it hasn't stopped guys from flirting with me. You're fine, OP. You've got nothing to worry about.

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  • chained_rage
    8 years ago

    Here's the thing:

    Appearance is nothing. Only superficial people put that quality on the very top of their list of "must haves".

    On the other hand...

    I understand how damaging your ugly teeth must be to your confidence. So much so that it is actually making you question your own worth.

    And that's bad =/

    So.. my advice would be to fix your teeth. Not for 'them'.. For YOU. You will feel so much better about yourself :)

    in the meanwhile, think of your hideous teeth as your primary wall of defence against the people who would otherwise only like you for your looks.. and not for what's on the inside.. like your blood and guts and stuff.

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    • Ellenna
      8 years ago

      Was that supposed to be supportive, describing her teeth (which presumably you haven't seen) as ugly and hideous?

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  • [Old Memory]
    8 years ago

    You are fine. A lot of the time things we see as flaws in our self are cute or attractive in someone else's eyes. You just need to find happiness in yourself and being content with the way you look. People notice confidence.

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  • PerriWinkle
    8 years ago

    Beauty is subjective. Everybody has a different perspective and looks can only go so far. A true relationship requires a lot more then just physical attractiveness. A man should love you for who you are. I'm sure your not as bad as you think. Chin up :)

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  • an_dgaf
    8 years ago

    Only those who are superficial would see your teeth as horrible and nasty and unpretty but if your boyfriend is comfortable with the way they look just forget about it smile to the haters

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  • NeuroNeptunian
    8 years ago

    My teeth are crooked and no one has said anything to me since middle school so...

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  • Arm0se
    8 years ago

    Guys are just like girls, so do some don't. You can't take every single person in one group and assume they all think the same way or do the same things. Though, personally I think it's bullshit to really care so much about someone's looks as looks do fade. If I never talked to an ugly person I'd miss out on some really nice an interesting people. How old are you btw? You shouldn't be worried about getting a man. If it happens it happens. don't go chasing after Solomon just because your lonely, go after someone because they're right for you.

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  • dog_as_hell
    8 years ago

    it sounds like youre young.... Appearance isnt everything but its somewhat an important part in looking for a partner right?

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