Do guys hate possessive girls?

Does he hate my possessiveness sometimes? Is it normal to be possessive? :(

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Based on 147 votes (95 yes)
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  • Gfrigo

    A girl who takes control is kinda hot. Just don't go too far and become a stalker.

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  • Ribbit.

    Ask him, we all have different prefrences.

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  • hippychick

    Not normal. Loosen your grip.

    And generally speaking, no they don't like it. So if you want to keep him, let him breath and stop obsessing.

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  • Korq

    Yeah, you should chill out and stop acting like such a psycho.

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  • DanB

    Ehhh it's hard to tell, usually immature girls are possessive because they don't trust the guy. That's a bad sign but showing a guy you care is good, finding a good balance is key to any good relationship

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  • Avant-Garde

    If I had a penis, I sure as hack wouldn't. Possessive people can be scary!

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  • Karmasbitch

    No

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  • iamacheeseburger

    Girls aren't "psycho" or "obsessive" just because they get a little jealous. It's normal hun, just find the right balance. Be honest when you're jealous, but it's a problem if its happening too often. Don't try to control him.

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  • DavidS.

    i think it depends on how it is expressed..if it is some controlling, enraged jealousy ...then yes, i would hate it...but if it is some sweet easy going jealousy..like your my man...i think we all want to feel like a hot piece of property as long as the person thinks it but doesnt get all fatal attraction on us

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  • Living_Too_Late

    I don't hate possessive girls cuz I don't date them the moment they reveal themselves as such. I let my partners see whoever they want, go wherever they want whenever they want. Essentially, they're free to do as they please,,, I don't feel any need to control them - a need that always appears as counterproductive anyway. Some mistake my attitude for "not caring", but that's their right,,, as is choosing to leave for somebody who'll question their every move.

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  • MilleBornes

    Possessive? YES! WE HATE THAT! Now im assuming you're calling multiple times within a timeframe you know is unnecessary, you ask for details of every day though you've been together for a while and basically already know everything or haven't been together long enough for him to give you a rundown and be comfortable doing so.

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  • la_uva_mojada

    Men r gonna feel or do what theyre gonna do regardless of how much control you attempt to have. you couldnt stop him from cheating, or admiring a cute girl, or liking another girl. The only difference is youll b hella annoying!

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  • jessicia16

    guys like shy sweet girls , if your possessive its more of a male quality and i think very un-attractive .... the kinda guys who like a woman to be possessive or in controle are momma's boys and have some very lame issues,,, definatly not BF / husband material.

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  • opal-leaves

    Men LOVE possessive girls lol. You just have to make sure you're are doing it right & not over doing it. Guys hate drama and whining but a tough woman they love!

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  • Dagan

    When you say positive, do you mean HIV positive?

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