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Honestly, i have seen many stuck up girls who seem to be in their own world. Do girls really want us guys to approach them for an interaction/relationship? And do girls really judge guys mainly on looks more than personality? I am far from ugly but just curious.
Both. I like when a guy approaches me (Some people don't want to always be the one chasing wondering, "Is there something I'm missing that not even one person is interested enough to approach me?") and I like approaching guys. At times I get shy and won't (to which I send him "Heeeeello there ;)" signals) at other times I can be confident.
Personality is far more important and a guys attractiveness depends on this and many other factors but strictly speaking, a stranger, yes his looks are the first thing I notice. There has to be *something* there.
As long as you don't say hel buaaaaaaargh.
Sorry i will try to keep my lunch on the inside next time.
I don't personally want anyone to approach me with intent of an intimate relationship. I clearly have a ring on my finger, which I make obvious upon noticing this situation. That doesn't seem to slow most guys down, though, so I don't feel bad when I tell them I'm not interested. People actually have the audacity to feel I'm a prude afterwards. They just need a quick stab to band-aide their rejection.
Point is, everyone is different. Some want attention, others don't. You have to pay attention. You can be a good-looking guy and still get rejected if you don't pay attention to the girl you flirt with. And yes, girls to judge looks, as well as have different tastes. What one girl finds attractive the other girl can find unattractive. Best bet is to study a little body language. Look it up online.
they do like guys approaching them and theyre the same as guys, do guys just judge girls by their looks?
I liek to be approached, but I'm shy... I did ask my bf out though, so both I guess. I don't judge by looks. My bf was a cute, shy, social outcast. I was attracted to his cute shyness x3 So it was personality. I know what you mean though, some people are like that, I have a friend who's that way. She broke up with a guy cause he grew sideburns ~.~ People are all just so different!
I have that "sixth sense" for spotting emotionally damaged/weak people, so who approaches who is irrelevant in my world.
I dunno. I gotta beat the ladies off with a stick, personally. I call it the chick-stick. It's red and black.
I'm just kidding, of course. Everyone's a little insecure about approaching someone they're attracted to, I think.
Yes, I do. A girl who looks "stuck up" may just be shy, especially when it comes to men. If a guy takes the risk of saying "hi" to me, that can really make my day :)
yes! i'm really shy at most times, and when i really like someone i just hope he approaches me because i'm to shy to do it myself :$ i don't judge by his looks only, i like it if he's really funny for instance. or if he's really trying to talk to me. i think most girls just like your full attention.
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