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At one time I had sort of alot of money back when I was younger.Drove a convertable porch and the women were every where.I know everyone want nice things.But to be honest I always went for the rocker chicks who smoked and drove shity cars they were just more real.
In a generalized way, you are right, but not everyone will fit within this generalization.
Men and women are instinctually driven by very different things because of the different evolutionary roles they have played for the past 200,000 years.
Men value: virility, youth, health
Women value: men with resources or the potential for resources.
Of course, today's modern world allows us to chose mates based on other characteristic traits, so you will find variations of these values in most societies and cultures.
Yes. That's weird that you drove a convertible porch...seems like that defeats the purpose of a porch. Sounds more like a patio.
The idea that women only see money when looking at men is a lie perpetuated by television and has little basis in reality.
It's amazing how much television has to do with shaping people's view of the world.
Complete bullshit. Any girl would give it up for financial security and to not have to work any day in their life. Sure girls will say they don't care, but if it ever legitimately came to it they would.
NO.
Last year (I'm in high school btw) there was this rich guy that I was friends with for 2 years and he liked me for 3 months before he confessed to me after pressure from his friends. I said no because he is totally socially awkward because he spends all day playing Loli games and kept on creeping on me by drawing pictures of me and hanging out with me after school when all my friends left. So no, I wouldn't date a rich man if I didn't like him as a person.
I went on a date with a women and we came back to my apt had a good time.The next day when I came home from work there was a small kitchen table and chairs sitting outside with a bow on it.The note said thought you might need this.Now I have been on both sides of the fence.I called her and said I thank you for the thought unless I pay you for it I cannot accept it.A second date never happened! As much as I like the whole thought of a women wanting to take care of me unfortunatly I have to be in love with her first! Then next stop car dealers (just kidding)
Well I am not a drinker but my pull a ball scratch on ocassion.I do not care if a women takes a bus walks flys a plane,thats no the point.Hell I used to take the bus for 2 years and there were plenty of pretty women doing the same.Did not mean to offend that was a lone time ago!
Well back then I had hair so it was part of the cool I guess!Thank you aquanet
Thanks for commenting.I am like most have my own apt car job but rather make you dinner.I do not drink its too expensive.Am am too nice actually!
If you ask me, money isn't necessary but it's always nice when a guy can take you out a lot. If you can't, it's okay.
In evolutionary terms, women are in the nest-feathering business and men are in the legover business. For money, read security. What's wrong with that?
Eh... I don't go for rich dudes. A lot of rich guy's that I've met,(of course I can't speak for all)were a little too materialistic for my liking. I used to be kind of friends with this guy from my HS years, and he drove around in really nice cars that were given to him by his parents. The guy was a little on the spoiled side, and I felt like he didn't really know the value of life. His priorities were whack, and he seemed a little immature, because all he talked about was how awesome his car was, and how he had the best of the best of everything, blah, blah, blah. But some girl's do go for that. And some girl's can be shallow by going for it for only the money.
Do all men fall inlove with their eyes, do all women fall inlove with their ears...
its complicated. yes most women want a rich man, as men want a attractive woman that is cute... dont say your not guilty of it just because your into cute rocker chicks its still the equivalent of another guy into blondes.
there are 2 types of people.
1. the kind that date up, date equally or better than them whether it be financially physically or educationally, or socially.
2 the kind that date down, try to rescue men or women to help them, therefore avoiding their own sucess and goals. they will have two identical women standing infront of them both equally attractive and they will pick the one with 5 kids and no shoes on their feet.
im not trying to be offensive. nothing is wrong with either type.
have you figured out that women that are shy love men that exute confidence.
alot of women come from unsable financial backgrounds they want to never go without and want their offspring to have everything they were denied... its a subconcience criteria.
concience criteria on the other hand is when one person admittedly says im going to marry a man in a uniform one day, or a whatever.
you are the type that goes for ... idgaf girls, cause u like that quality about yourself.. im assuming though
My comment was intended for females and obviously not the OP. My apologies for any confusion.
Unfortunately, the majority of financially secure men tend to lack the emotional connections with others due to the fact that we readily have resources available, and do not require those "people connections" to move forward unlike the paycheck-to-paycheck counterpart. It is obviously a stereotype, but I generally find it to old true in many cases.
Your best bet if you're looking to meet a financially secure man, is to look for the type who is "self made" and has been in the depths of poverty or simply middle class before-- I find we tend to both offer financial security as well as a sincere emotional approach to all of our relationships we embark on.
As a woman myself, I personali think it depends on the individuals. Some women are ver high maintenance and they want to be looked after, wined and dined. Me personally,I love being independent and getting what I want from my own pocket. In all honesty I would NOT want a rich guy, the reason for that is because I guess I don't want to seem like I cant take me and him to expensive places like he might take me for example and I wil always feel like my gifts will never be good enough. I'm not saying that the most amazing gifts have to expensive, but money to certain individuals mean a lot more becaus they may feel that money is the key factor to have fun. Furthermore, social class might play a crucial factor too in the question you ask.