Do all men do this???

My husband doesn't have a cell phone right now(lost it) so he uses mine and every single time he borrows it he is on instagram looking at profiles of asses, girls half naked and porn! (this is the only reason he wants the phone for) and its everyday & any time of the day. Im not even kidding every single time he uses it thats what he is looking at, sometimes he even borrows his sister phone to look at porn!

It never use to bother me this much before but now its become a problem he doesn't see anything wrong with what he is doing he says its normal and that all men are like that! Which I totally disagree I mean I know men watch porn and what not but do they look at that kinda stuff every time they are on the phone? And doesn't go to the point where they just rather look at that stuff that they don't care to be intimate with their wife?

I mean are all men really like this??

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Comments ( 28 )
  • DannyKanes

    Well, I don't do it, so no. Not all men do it.

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    • Unimportant

      All but DannyKanes.

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  • RoseQuartz

    It's not normal to do it to that degree. Your husband has serious issues.

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  • Steven Glansberg

    I can't say i look at porn every single time i am on my phone, but definitely often. I share porn pics often with a buddy of mine via text. I will just randomly send him a pic of some hot chick with her legs spread wide.

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    • Steve2

      Why don't you send him a picture of you with your legs spread wide?

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      • Steven Glansberg

        Because, Steve2.0, i'm not gay like you

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        • thegypsysailor

          Oh really? Then where from comes your deep familiarity with waxing and plucking?

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          • Steven Glansberg

            Lol if you check the thread about that you will see that somebody else corrected me which clearly shows i do NOT know much about waxing and plucking

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  • Nudehusband

    The girls put up all the pics first. They get off having 10,000 likes and showing screen shots to their girl friends.

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  • SuMaFTW

    Yes, your husband had a porn addiction, and that is why he isn't having sex with you. For a change to occur, he needs to recognize that what he is doing is morally wrong before God, he needs to ask Jesus into his life, he needs to submit to counseling, and he needs your help to keep him away from computers and the internet. The truth is this can destroy his family, his career, and his soul. If he is unwilling to listen to your feelings on this matter, he definitely has serious problems. I struggled with pornography, I still do from time to time, but I would never use my wife's phone for it, or her computer. In fact, I personally don't store any pornography. And I experienced that after a month or two of going clean, my sexual life with my wife became normal once again.

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  • Goku19

    How dare he said all men are like this . Speaking of myself i search for women photos or videos once in a month for it is like watching flowers or watching peacocks .

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  • Krisztina_Rose

    He may have a porn addiction which is not healthy

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  • Demarcus

    The hubby is a serious porn addict, leaving a trail for everyone to know. Give it time, eventually he will do something will cause him to lose his job.
    Demand he get help and check in with you frequently or pack your bags and get the hell out.

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  • DADNSCAL

    Is the issue the porn or your lack of sex with him? It sounds like he's sending you a message. If he's looking at porn instead of having sex with you, you both have a problem. Some men watch a lot of porn to stimulate their appetite for their wives, so that could be normal too.

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  • KingTermite

    If he was getting what he wanted in real life he wouldn't be looking for it elsewhere. If you're being stingy with the sex be glad he isn't seeking the real thing elsewhere.

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    • alae2724

      He doesn't want to be intimate. I been trying for two months now and he always turns me down. He would rather look at that then be intimate with me.

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      • Lonely2

        Than thats the problem....porn can ruin your attraction to real women because real women never measure up to porn starlets....I know because I look at porn a lot and have zero attraction to most women..if I stop looking at porn even for a week regular girls start looking hot to me again

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      • KingTermite

        Why is that?

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  • thegypsysailor

    Apparently, internet porn is extremely addictive. Sounds like hubby has a very serious case of this. All men do not do this; hell I don't even know what instagram is.
    If I was you, I tell him to get his own damn phone and not let him near yours. Then you'll have to decide if this is really a big deal to you and whether you want to deal with it or ignore it. There are therapists who can help.

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  • TTML

    Maybe he isn't getting enough

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  • Tealights

    It's normal for a majority of men to look at porn. It's abnormal for your husband to look at it obsessively, he needs to learn moderation.

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  • RoseIsabella

    I think it's disrespectful for him to do that on your phone.

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    • The_Creep

      He probably thinks it's disrespectful too. Perhaps he is hoping that she will tie him up and force him have creepy love. But, he is too creepy to say what he wants. Me thinks he may be material that a skillful hot female like you could work with to tame.

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      • RoseIsabella

        I don't think it's normal. It's shittier than a pile of black tarry stool clogging up a toilet.

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        • The_Creep

          But, it's far less shittier than that guy who was choking his girlfriend a few hours ago. You've got to leave room so that distinctions among creepy behavior can be made. (You're basically saying, throw your cell phone in the trash, and flush that piece of shit down the toilet.) When creeps hear you say that, they sense short term opportunity. I would know, I'm a creep.

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          • RoseIsabella

            LOL!

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  • gloryholeflasher

    I can't speak for all men but I think it's entirely normal for most guys to enjoy looking at partially naked women. It's programmed into us for the propagation of the species.

    I think of sex as being a spectator sport as well as a participator sport, much like watching a ball game or an Olympic event. How did it ever come to be called "porn" to imply that it's evil and that people who watch it are bad? Is it because of the Judeo-Christian ethic that sex outside of marriage and/or for pleasure instead of procreation is a sin?

    I wouldn't use somebody else's phone to look at porn. I wouldn't want most people to know that I enjoy looking at porn, or what kind I like.

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  • LittleGirl-BASHEDandSODOMISED

    Yeah pretty much and you had do something about it fast. Rarely do i advocate a woman "putting her foot down"

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