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I used to have 2 best friends, friend number 1 and friend number 2. We have been best friends since last year. But this year, it seems like they are both finding me quite annoying and they are teasing me and I'm finding it really difficult to catch up with them. It always seems like i'm tagging along because everyone else in my class has their own group of friends.

Friend number 1 and 2 are trying in any way to make me jealous and feel left out like whispering to each other when i'm around, making me think their talking about me, even if they are, tricking me about friend number 1 going to friend number 2's house, saying that they are sisters and think the same way, any pathetic ways there are to make me miserable, they will try. They say they are best friends and I am good friends with them but I'm sure they see me as less than a good friend.

I'm finding it really dificult and i'm starting to dread school everyday, I know talking to them about my feelings will make them hate me more, I try being kind to them in every way but that lasts a very short time. I dont want new friends because everyone in my class has got their own group of friends and are happy with it, I feel like no one likes me anymore. :'(

What can I do to make them realise how much their hurting me without talking to them about my feelings? :(

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  • PoisonFlowers
    14 years ago

    You...ditch THEM! Now they're showing their true colours: bitchy, manipulative, dishonest, horrible.

    They KNOW that they are hurting you. That is what this whole malarky is about. The sooner you are rid of them, the better.

    I've been in your position many times. It's damn hard, I know, because you think that if you stick with them, then at least you won't be a loner. That it's not as bad. Well let me tell you - now, I'm an anxious person with hardly any self confidence. My social skills aren't as developed as they should be. This sounds ridiculous, but I even have nightmares about my old group of "friends," which leave me feeling awful and anxious.

    Believe me, in the long run, this will be better for you. These people are toxic for you. You know, you might make friends with someone else and join in with another group instead. If not, at least now you won't have to hang on to mistreaters - you can look for a proper friend. Good luck *hugs*

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  • lotusgirl
    14 years ago

    leave them the f*ck alone and go your own way
    you are following them around
    stop tagging along
    if they are treating you bad why do you still hang out with them?
    you are obviously self conscious and afraid to be alone
    you have lots of growing up to do kiddo
    how old are you? 10?
    the age requirement for this site is 18

    anyways......you dont need friends if all your going to get is a bunch of meanies

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    • pete1729
      14 years ago

      seriously, leave those people behind and don't look back.

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  • Anonymous1991
    12 years ago

    better to be alone then with bitches. Find some other people who look alone, and become their friends. There should really be plenty in high school.

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    • WordWizard
      11 years ago

      It not always that easy. I am not the poster but I can say its not always that easy finding friends and when your old ones leave a lot of times people have already made groups by this time.

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  • Eeveefangamer
    7 years ago

    My friends ditch me too

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  • FallenAngel.died
    10 years ago

    May Be They have Became Really Closer iF YOU KNOW WHAT i MEAN (lESBo'S) & NOW THEY SURELY WANT ''yOU'' No Where Near them !

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  • WordWizard
    11 years ago

    How sad I had friends like this. The only difference Is that They would always be super nice to me when they needed something. So I was happy 80% of the time.

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  • CharleSD
    13 years ago

    I don't think you deserve friends like that. Friends who know that they're hurting you and don't care. So what I would do is tell them bye
    You deserve better friends than that stupid ones.
    Maybe it's gonna be hard for you because you had really good times together but they are not the only ones in the world.

    As the time passes they're gonna realize what a GOOD friend the've lost and if they don't it just means they're STUPID

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  • tygeronherbed
    14 years ago

    hey i used to have a really hard time in high school with my friend number 1 and friend number 2. they did the same kind of stuff to me, i always felt excluded. when they were together they were just plain bitches, they only time they were nice was when i offered to buy lunch or let them come to my house after school, but even then they were rude and really hurt my feelings. eventually i just got suck of it and towards the end of senior year i said listen, either you stop treating me shitty or im going to find other friends, and at first that only made things worse and we all got in a huge fight but after that things were slightly better, from then on i just kept on calling them out when they were behaving that way and i could usually snap them out of it for a min.
    now im in college and i made new friends and im much happier.

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    • [Old Memory]
      14 years ago

      That is truly sad, even your own friends don't like you.

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  • dakaa
    14 years ago

    tell 'em bye bye.

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  • 8662R
    14 years ago

    I learnt to live with that

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