Ditched for drugs or cheating?

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My boyfriend and I were going to a play. We got in a fight and he jumped out of the car before we went in. The next morning he shows up at my house at 6 a.m. because he was supposed to watch my daughter. He is wearing the same dress clothes from the night before. When I get back he is gone. He doesn't answer his phone. Finally when he does, he is at the races in 85 degree. The races are 30 minutes from my house but he left 3 hours before they started and says he drove around in circles instead of going home to change into something more comfortable for the heat. He ignores me that evening. Next morning He shows up at my house with the bible saying I am the most important person in the world to him. He has had a past of drug abuse. Is this a 1 day relapse? Did he ditch me that night to go cheat and show up in the same clothes? Is this normal?

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  • (s)aint
    10 years ago | pl

    Why is someone who ditches your daughter still your boyfriend?

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      That was my first thought as well. Who leaves a kid unsupervised?

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      • (s)aint
        10 years ago

        Yeah. It sickens me to know that she is far from unique by doing this, either ...

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  • [Old Memory]
    10 years ago | pl

    That sounds like a bizarre series of events. I find it funny that after all of that he thinks showing up with a bible is going to make him seem more serious. He sounds like a moron.

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  • jeebley
    10 years ago | pl

    I think he's the one.

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  • RoseIsabella
    10 years ago

    Maybe its both drugs and cheating; either way dump his sorry ass.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      I actually almost snarted for real this morning.

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      • RoseIsabella
        10 years ago

        Cool. ;-)

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        • [Old Memory]
          10 years ago

          I plan to snart someday.

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          • RoseIsabella
            10 years ago

            Don't be afraid; just go with it.
            ;-)

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  • Tommythecat.
    10 years ago

    I have no idea.

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  • Crazy-guy
    10 years ago

    he's crazy

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  • [email protected]
    10 years ago

    Sounds a lot like my old past routine except for the cheating and kid watching.

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    • RockG
      10 years ago

      Is that you bakken rock n bak. You're my dog!! Miss you el hefe

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  • supaflyafro
    10 years ago

    maybe the reason why things like this happen is because people STILL believe the bible will save the when its actually common sense and willpower

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  • mixwell
    10 years ago

    Sounds like he was mucked out on meth and stayed up all night

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    • jeebley
      10 years ago

      Got so 'mucked out' last night,... those were the days.. I was high as a pony club stable!

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      • mixwell
        10 years ago

        Haha I duno thats what we call it. Or we say on a good one

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  • Wierdmyself
    10 years ago

    Sounds like drugs, not cheating. Because he didn't blame you exactly, and he has a history of drug abuse.

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  • RomeoDeMontague
    10 years ago

    Yeah it sounds like drugs. A lot of times people who are on drugs will find Christ. As well as that people who are Christian will try and help these people by showing them Christ.

    So maybe he left got fucked up wondered where his life was going and maybe a nice christian pitied him and gave him a bible telling him to keep his head up. I not sure how any of this would say cheating.

    I doubt he is cheating on you. Also he could have went to AA. They often play the bible card to help cure drug addicts. While I do not agree with this method apparently it helps some people. Also my issue has nothing to do with religion but implanting the thought of 0 responsibility for ones own actions and the fact its indoctrination.

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    • [Old Memory]
      10 years ago

      Lmao im confused they try to cure alcohol addiction with christian brainwashing. Thats like adding gasoline to a fire. Pray to a fake god that will solve your problems. Stupidity nowadays always seems to suprise me.

      For the Op he just ditched you for drugs and because most guys dont like plays.

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      • RomeoDeMontague
        10 years ago

        Yeah pretty much. Some drug help centers will do that. The method is they say you have no control and that to give in to a higher power. That the higher power will help cure your addiction. I have nothing against religion but I don't agree with such methods. I also seen a lot of xconvicts/troubled youth and drug addicts turn to Christ for the answers and say they were saved. I know a lot of people on drugs and I have had people in my family like that. So this stuff does happen. Christianity and drugs going together is not surprising. Christians trys to save the people in the worse shape and a lot of time when people are hopeless they turn to that.

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