Distancing myself

81% Normal
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Whenever I want to end a relationship, I tend to distance myself from that person. I don't like to come right out and confront them or really tell them how I feel. I've done this many times. Is it normal?

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81% Normal
Based on 53 votes (43 yes)
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  • lefthandedleo
    13 years ago

    It's normal unfortunately. Just tell the guy/girl and get it over with. You'd be hurting that person's feelings even more by not saying anything.

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  • Cold.2.The.Bone
    14 years ago

    As they all said. Normal. Most people do this. Me being one of them....

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  • Simply_Abnormal
    14 years ago

    I know the exact same feeling, I tend to distance myself first so I can feel more secure about doing it, and see if I am doing the right thing. I mean sometimes I do it so that they dump me, in the hope of not hurting them.

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  • GalacticEgg
    14 years ago

    This is normal, but it's not very nice lol. I do the same thing, even to friends of mine; whenever I want them out of my life, I tend to simply remove myself from theirs. It's been messy, especially with some people who enjoy closure and insist on confronting me about it :/

    I must say that I feel like an absolute jerk whenever I act like this, so I usually deserve negative reactions.

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