Disgusted by my fat son

What kind of father are you. Try and help him with his problem.

You sound like a dick. I wouldn't be surprised if the majority of your older son's problems are stemming from your atrocious attitude towards him. Put this senseless hatred aside and become a proper father who will help him with his problems.

You would never say that if he was really your own son, if he exists. I personally know a man who has a son who has dropped out of high school and has been in prison twice. He still loves his son, but he's disappointed in the choices he's made. You *should* be like him.

Signed,
Knight Nigel Wellington XXI

To an extent it's your fault. You sit there and watch this behavior. Try to help him instead of just sitting there whining about your son.

You jerk.

Poor dude. My mother always kept telling me how I was fat and ugly and useless, and I always felt so bad because of it. No matter how hard I tried, I was always ugly to her. Try helping him to look better, I would have liked it if my mom did it...

You're sick of taking care of that stupid parasite. Well perhaps you should have thought of that before you created him. You brought him here he never asked to be born so it is now your duty to love him unconditionally. I can't understand how any mum can be embarrassed by their own child. xxx

If you're not troll you are cunt. "Depression" is real medical condition and I'm not even suprised he's depressed with mother like you. You have no right to judge him for the fact he's fat, you're probably fugly yourself. Parents should love their kid no matter how they look. I hope he moves away soon so he can have better life than with you.

First, it's your fault that he was born. Second, his not going to school isn't necessarily laziness but him avoiding the bullying he was probably subjected to if he's really that unattractive. Third, showing a marked preference for a more beautiful child will only make him jealous and who knows if someday he'll kill you and his brother on a bout of pure rage. It's all your fault as a failed parent.

You're the reason your son is a fat, disgusting outcast. You say that he sat in his room playing games all night for two years, that means he was 16 when he started, so where you and his father? Why didn't you turn the lights out and tell him to get his ass to bed? Why didn't you put his fat ass on a diet long ago? Fruit doesn't fall far from the tree!

As his father it's your job to guide him on the proper paths in life.

If he's that much of a failure, it does not say much about you.

I'd rather be fat and lazy than a cunt-sucking douchebag like you.

Really hope you're trolling but if not then you're an asshole who shouldn't have kids.

No matter how 'fat' or 'ugly' your son is, he still is a part of you!

You helped create him, that should be enough ambition for you to want him to be successful, happy, and loved.

It's normal for parents to have favorites BUT this is way to extreme. A parent, not for ANY REASON should 'hate' their own flesh and blood child.

Imagine yourself in his shoes. Maybe he is depressed. The fact he has a father who does not seem to care about him much isn't helping I assume.

Isn't it your job to make sure he goes to school and gets the help he needs? If you didn't want to deal with this stuff, you shouldn't have had kids. You're supposed to be his role model and here you are judging him for things you are supposed to lead him away from.

Prime example of the first student of the IIN parenting class!

I am so mad at you.

You are a psychotic human being. Get help.

Before i state my comment, let me say that the only reason i made an account on IIN was to comment on this.

You are a heartless woman, your son is suffering through depression, doesnt this mean anything to you?

You are blinded by pride and are not taking responsibility for your own son. How can you be so cruel? Theres an old saying in China, and when translated means the following: "When a Child makes a mistake, it is never the child's fault; but the one who raised and taught him"

Back when i was a child, my parents always argued and whenever i did anything wrong, they would shout and hit me. They would cry all day, and this caused me to be depressed at home and at school which caused my fellow students to start bullying me. I was suffering from extreme depression, and my grades were getting worse and worse to the extent where i almost commited suicide.

I could only rely on my friends at church to comfort me, and it was there that one person that taught me something which changed my life 'The human mind may seem sophisticated, but it isn't. If you keep letting people treat you the way they are now you will be like this forever. instead, do not shy away from your pains, but use them in your favour. Remember how it feels right now, and it can only get better.

It was those words that made me what i am right now, the CEO of a semi-major chinese company and respected by the general public. I have also done a incredible deed to my country, however it has been classified and i'm not about to reveal it.

The point is, try to understand your son, because just some words can change the course of someones life.
And please, what did he do to deserve you being like this?

Another famous chinese proverb 'No matter what the child does, he is still the parent's flesh and blood' You, if anyone were responsible for making him look like so.

If he played games all night for 2 years and missed school, that means that you've given up on him. Dont give up on him.ever.He is your son

This is obviously fake but if not then of course he's depressed. Anyone would be living with a shitty mother like you. You shouldnt have had kids to begin with so own up to taking responsibility for your stupid actions.

wtf?!?"? ur a horrible esccuse of a mother !! i understand you not liking his life style but thats why your there! put him into some sport make him eat healther and dont let him live in his room. hes not healthy anyways put some positive changes in his life. hes probley depressed becuz all of that and it doesnt help to have a mom that favors one son over the other. your hurting his self esteem try buliding him up instead of tearing him down

What kind of parent are u?!?

What a cock

this is a joke obviously.

P.S. Mother*, not father, to the unobservant.

Im not surprised hes depressed... Having a pain in the ass father like you who despise anything he does is actualy the issue. Not him. YOU.

Id hate youre fckn face forever if i was him, so try to be a better parent, talk to him and help him go through his problems. Instead of not knowing anything about him exept the fact that he hides in his room and is depressed. And you hate him for it...

And if not, wait a few years, your 12 years old is gonna go through the same if YOU dont change. Kids learn and you cant just control them like toys anymore.

Dick.

Whether your a mother or father I don't know. But I'd like to beat your fucking head in....

This is obviously not true. He's either describing someone he knows, possibly his brother or someone who goes to school with him, or simply trolling.

For fucks sake he is your son. Get him on track, its your duty. You are responsible for his state. Now go and whoop some ass and get him into a gym or something and do your fucking job instead of crying out your inabilities here.

Ok so here is what you do. Leave a trail of breadcrumbs out of your house for about five miles into the woods. Make sure there are plenty of wild animals. Leave a mirror there. He'll follow the trail and before getting eaten (in several sessions) by wild animals he'll be able to see in the mirror why you left him. P.S. The first time I did this I spaced the crumbs too far apart so don't be stingy with the food. That was your son's mistakes. Your pleasure.

It must be because he resembles you too much.

lol

Your mean how can you possibly hate your son so much that you would try and make him live with his grandparents if you hate the way he is then why dont you do something about it and help him out maybe try and get him to stop spending so much time in the dark playing video games and encourage him to lose weight and workout, get a job . Also Look him in the eye and tell him that if he doesnt change the way he is he will be a fat loser for the rest of his life and he will probably end up homeless, he wont get a girlfriend he will never lose his virginity or worse he will probably commit suicide. So yea you should do something now

I really hope this is a joke. If not I Feel bad for laughing. Its pretty bad how you call your son a parasite. Geez how awful.

dude, you are my mom