Discussion over how to spice things up
Some context, I'm female and I believe I am a Mommy from the BDSM subcategory of MDLB. I feel that I'm better at the lifestyle than I am at the sex itself, and I was curious as to what different ways I can spice things up in the bedroom from a BDSM standpoint. We have discussed his hard limits already but there might be more ways of awarding him or punishing that I don't know about.
So the question is how can I, as a dominant female, add some more sexual spice to the relationship?