Did your parents ever spank you?

In this pink and fluffy. politically correct world we currently live in when spanking your child is looked down upon we are raising kids with no fear or repsect of authority.

Kids respect what they fear it isn't until later in life they learn respect in other forms such as admiration etc...

Only once I was hidding in K-Mart an they couldn't find me. weird when I cussed in church nothing.

I lost respect for my mother at the age of 12 when she beat the life out of me because my baby brother fell down the stairs - while I was at school and she was in charge. I think her nerves were just wrecked with 5 kids and she was / is so bad-tempered she just lashed out, never taking the time to think!

I walked in one time while she was beating my younger brother with a dog's choke chain. I told her to leave him alone, so she beat me with it.

She was never educated and never grew up, so remains a bad-tempered teenager (in her brain) determined to always get her own way and to be rude to those closest to her :o(

Hmmm. Parents beat....grandfather touched. Any other questions?

no cause then the spell would have been broken

Psychologists reckon that an adult will not remember being spanked as a child as long as the spanking was 'deserved' and not excessive. Children have a strong sense of justice and if they are blamed / spanked for something they didn't do then they are likely to remember that incident. I think that's why I remember the incidents I mentioned above.

I have only ever spanked my son once When he was two/three years old he ran out between two parked cars onto a main city road (thinking it was a funny game). I screamed and threw my shopping bags over the top of him to stop him going any further. I had left my keys in the car door and dropped my purse in the street to catch him. I swear to God, I thought he was dead - as did all the passers-by! So, yes, in the street I did smack him! He was more shocked than hurt by me. I was also shaking and crying as I tried to explain that he could've been so badly hurt by the cars, that he'd be taken away from me and I'd never see him again.

OK. I lashed out, but I justify it to myself by thinking that even a bitch will nip her young pup if it's going near danger. I saved his life and he never did anything like that again.

my family beat the livin daylights out of me.

Spank, no. Break my bones, yes.

violence = small mind, less than animals

Replace spanking with beating. then YEAH!
9/10 for good reasoning, 1/10 was for no good reasoning. I got beaten from throwing away my old books I did my work in from Year 2 (UK equivalent to US 3 Grade I think) We didn't even learn anything we only had fun! And because of it I have a dent on my head was a scar on my knee. That's what stupid moronic African Parent's do you. he doesn't touch me anymore if he does I can get a restraining order on HIM!

every time i got an A- in elementary school :/
they don't do it much anymore though, thankfully D:

I used to love it when my father spanked me and would always masturbate in my room afterwards.

Not my parents. My grandmother did, but I think it was for sexual reasons. You don't spank a child and call it a "special game" and forbid them not to tell their parents. You especially aren't supposed to slowly caress the bottom between spanks. That's behavior that should only be reserved for adults in the BDSM community.

Yes... but it's weird because it's now generally seen as child abuse, but then so many parents must be child abusers, the most despicable of labels.

no, they didn't, but that doesn't mean I wasn't terrified of my dad

No. But they did threaten to.

Yes, my mom whipped me. But I don't agree with Corporal Punishment and I never will. Sorry.

Yes. And I thank them for it.

yeah

Why are all the kids who got spankings getting thumbs down. Yes is my awnser.

YES and im glad b/c i was disciplined NOT abused! its teaching punishment for actions. just like u shoot someone u got to jail. simple! i now appreciate and respect ppl for it. im sure others feel the same. thats why this generation is growing up like little hell on wheels and scareing the parents. well damn do something about it geeze dont let ur 8yr old tell you "MAKE ME A SANDWICH WOMAN" and expect him to grow out of it and treat others with respect.
Stupid ppl shouldnt breed and if u dont have morals u just need not to make kids. PERIOD!

never but until i was 15 my mother would beat me with a wooden spoon on the back and shoulder :/ I ussually just ran around the house and if she hit me i hit her back on the same stop but lightly with ma fist. I would never spank my kids :/ maybe if theyre still small..

I loved getting spanked by my dad. It made me so horney.

Yes on occasion, most likely deserved though, and what I recall it never really hurt physically for more than a minute, it was more the surprise of it and it really made me think of what I did. To be honest it's a good tactic for getting kids to respect their elders and learn what's right and wrong.
If it leads to abuse then it does just the opposite.

No. They put my butt through the cheese grater. Much more effective.

My dad used to whoop me with a thick leather belt.

No...thats weird.

nope they didnt parent me much at all. i would probly try to fight them if they did that to me.

They WOOPED my ass lol

Yes I got hit with high heels and brushes and crockery was thrown at me a fair few times. I don't remember being smacked on my bum but I remember my sister getting the beating of a lifetime on hers, it scared the hell out of me.

yes.for no reason every night.she says it is to keep me on the rite path.she is still spanking me when i m 30?

My mum only ever hit me and my brother to try and break up our fights. Never spanked though... There's something weird about slapping a child's bum specifically as a form of discipline.

I guess it's an idea you sort of inherit.

I got smacked on the back of the legs/arse when I was a kid.

Don't really hate on my parents for it as I'm sure I could have been a right little shit. I stopped around the ages of 12 when I was getting the same height of my dad (lols).

Don't have anything against it as long as it doesn't leave permanent damage.

HELL YES, MY MOM WAS FROM THE OLD COUNTRY WAY OF THINKING. SOMEBODY PISSES YOU OFF JUST BEAT THE SHIT OUT OF THEM. I USED TO HAVE TO GO OUT BACK AND PICK ME A KING SIZE SWITCH TO GET MY BUTT KICKED. THOSE WHERE THE GOOD OLE DAY'S, HA!
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plus even been beat by a paddle....so not good :(

yupp..!!! my mother had spank me plenty of times..!!! I mean i can understand for lot of things she did beat me & spank me..i was a stubborn ass child while growing up..lol. Ya know when you have your own little kid u will have a feeling u just wanna spank your little kid & get aggravted. It happens. i rather get spank than get beat cause getting beat sucks & hurts real bad. I hated it...! I was abuse growing up in my life.

A few times. Only when I really deserved it. I didn't get punished for backsass or not cleaning my room. Once I slammed a door behind me and my little sister wanted to walk through but i didn't see her so she got hit with the door. That is bad, even for a dumb little kid. So my dad hit me upside my head a couple times.

The thing is. On their own getting slapped or hit hurts. But when these things are done out of punishment I wasn't thinking "Ouch" i was thinking "I can't believe my parent hit me" The shock really drowns out the pain. And i did learn.

Kids are animals. And animals understand a physical response. When someone verbaly says you did something bad, it might not be understood it as easily

A while back a lady friend of mine slapped a guy in the face. He called the cops on her. A month or two later the exact same thing happened with a different friend. These men -no- these boys didn't even stop to wonder if they deserved it. Modern parenting?

Yes, several times and I deserved it. I was a stubborn, devious & self-destructive brat. Oh if they knew about the things they didn't catch me at... My Dad would say "This IS going to hurt you more than it hurts me". My Mother stopped swatting me at 6 yrs old b/c I fought her like a mean little animal. Ironically, I saw my Mother as weak and respected my Father...who knew. I rare to never used corporal punishment and I have raised a spoiled rotten, content with nothing & entitled teenager.

Yes they did spank me. but im glad they did because it showed they loved me and it helped me get that extra little kick of maturity.

My little bro and I had a babysitter who beat us. She once stuck him in a corner for 6 hours and he defecated on himself. On the other hand, when corporal punishment is not abused, it can be an effective motivator.