Did you ever feel insecure about your genitals?

When I was about 10-12 I remember wanting to see what a vagina looked like because I thought mine was really weird looking, and I was convinced something was wrong with me. I found it so ugly and gross that I thought guys would never get near me. It was one of my biggest fears and insecurities. Did something similar happen to you as you grew up?

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  • GoraIntoDesiGals

    Yes I'm insecure about my penis.

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  • Trust_Me_I_Know

    Everyone goes through insecurities, and none look the same. Guys don't care about most of what girls are worried about! Relax and that'll turn them on even more. They love a girl who is secure w their self!

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    • I'm not insecure anymore though! mine looks perfectly fine haha I just thought it was really nasty as a kid

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  • Essence.acer

    Yes. I always feel insecure about my vagina. I'm always worried about it being too small or too tight. It's very normal to think that something is wrong down there because you always think worse of yourself than others. I just try to imagine that i'm watching someone else on a screen and see what I really think of myself. trust me i went from ugly to sexy as hell in the matter of weeks. You just have to be confident and comfortable with your body. Relax a little because if you are tense it will make something go wrong. Enjoy yourself. It's ok to have fun and brag on it a little. I be in the mirror like "damn i got the most sexy stomach in the world!" and i tell that to my boyfriend sometimes. He loves it when i tease him. But the key to being secure with yourself is confidence. You gotta have confidence because low self-esteem is a big turn off to men.

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  • ToxicCrayons

    honestly, i have the perfect vagina

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    • mazgan

      and wheres the evidence for that?

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  • Duke

    So your vajay jay is good then? You ain`t workin with no roast beef sandwich?

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  • ChemGirl

    Actually, I just heard about this. I thought all vaginas looked the same, but I learned there were different length labias and different size clitorises. I asked my husband, and he told me there was a lot of variety. Women even get plastic surgery now to make their labias pretty!

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  • catdogman

    I think puss pusses r ugly my penis is my best friend

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    • ihaveapoon

      Ur a fag!

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    • GoraIntoDesiGals

      You must be gay?

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      • catdogman

        Yes

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  • carolina99

    I used to be. I have slightly large labia lips and that's something I haven't seen in porn but it turns out guys I've been with love it cuz it looks different than most. Now I'm perfectly happy with my vagina

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  • Pcboy

    Umm how shall i put this, this has happened to me but it is perfectly normal so dont think anything bad about it were all born with it and if so live with it

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  • Essence.acer

    If you think about it, porn stars are only people just like you. They have no advantage over you, you just gotta believe it. They have the same body parts.

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  • Every vag looks like the maw of some unearthly creature.

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  • Terence_the_viking

    oh no.

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  • Sog

    I'd only be turned off if there was some unsanitary stuff going on down there... if you know what I mean.

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  • to be honest...i was complete clueless about my genitals at that age :) But I've discovered that a decent guy wouldn't care what you look like...they'd be more focused on doing 'it' then looks

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  • dom180

    Yes, I think everyone has been at one time or another. I'm not at all insecure about that area now though :P

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  • linefly1231

    Not really insecure about my penis.. :P

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  • Avant-Garde

    No... But I used to be terrified of my genitals.

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    • shuggy-chan

      Showers must have been akward

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      • Avant-Garde

        Damn straight, they were! Awkward and Scary.... I didn't even want to touch it so how I managed to have good hygiene for so long is beyond me. O_0

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  • Anime7

    I think both genitals just look weird but no I was never insecure about my penis.

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  • Fabulous

    Haha yeah right my wieners ginormous

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  • anti-hero

    Did you ever get any?

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