Did something really weird as a 14 year old?

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Was sitting in class, told my buddy I bet I could masturbate without anybody noticing, I tried for a minute, then stopped because there's obviously nothing sexual in a classroom, and we thought it was hilarious for some reason.

10 years later, at 24, it hit me out of nowhere that that was super wrong and immoral. For some reason we just thought it was funny as kids, not that that's any excuse. I never did anything like that before or after. I haven't been able to get it out of my head for a couple months now, feeling like some weirdo sex offender and that everybody that I know would be disgusted and hate me if they knew I did that.. this might sound like an over-exaggeration, but sometimes I really can't take the guilt.

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  • ughwhy
    5 years ago

    If you did that as an adult I'd that would be really creepy and disgusting. But I don't consider you a weirdo sex offender and I doubt people would hate you because you were still a kid! In the realm of dumb shit 14 year old boys do that really isn't that bad and I wouldn't assume anything about your adult self because of it.

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  • Indigo1
    5 years ago

    Every teenage boy masturbates somewhere unusual at some point lol.

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  • Anonyoaks
    5 years ago

    14 year olds are reckless and stupid, that's just a fact of life. You were 14, everybody else was the same age - nobody complained and, unless there's more to the story that's not being told, nobody was hurt.
    Now obviously it's not the greatest thing to do, but you seem to realize that so there's nothing to really worry about. We all did stupid things as teens. It's not something to bring up in normal conversation, but don't sweat it. If someone's genuinely that bothered by something you did as a dumb teen that hurt no one (that you realize is wrong nowadays) then there are better people to be around.

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  • JellyBeanBandit
    5 years ago

    That's honestly not that bad even as an adult. I won't just tell you to 'get over it' because I know it's not that easy, but try not to tell yourself that it wasn't that bad and don't be too hard on yourself.

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  • RoseIsabella
    5 years ago

    Tell him what you told us.

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