Did my break-up turn me gay?

there are lots of straight men that like to have anal pleasure

You bunch of assh*les. This experience is very significant in this guy's life. This experience doesn't make him any more gay than banging a few women makes me straight.

Dude, you're not gay. You did, however, have gay sex. People don't just turn gay. It's not a disease or a cult.

Why do you feel the need to label yourself? You seem to know how you feel about the situation, and that's all that matters. You were hurt and depressed and in need of comfort. Since you swore off of women, this was the only intimacy you were going to get, apparently. If you know in your heart of hearts that you will not find fulfilling companionship with another male, then you guys should stop fooling around, before one of you gets attached (who knows, you could surprise yourself). Give yourself time to get over your ex, and then you can start dating women again and not have to worry about being "gay."

this is a bit too much for my brain. If in the midst of a breakup my brother had sex with a male. Id say he slept with a guy..and a guy sleeping with a guy..is yesssss..gay. U can play for both teams i suppose..but it sounds to me like at the very least ur bi... It doesnt really make a damn as long as ur honest about urself

Everyone saying that you "turn" gay the moment you have a gay sexual experience is wrong.

You might be bisexual. Or, maybe, you are just experimenting. But if you still feel that you are attracted to and connect emotionally with women, you are almost certainly not completely gay.

Whatever the case may be, you'll figure things out. In these matters, it's best to force nothing and just go with the flow.

You might be bi sexual! Its not like you've stopped enjoying sex with females so yea it does not make you gay

It is not possible to "turn gay".

I'm a guy. I get fucked in the rear every friday night and laugh if a girl flirts with me. I also jerk off to straight porn every once in a blue moon. Doesn't make me straight. Jesus you'd think you could figure this out by yourself.

Dude you had sex to have sex in a weak moment. You are not gay, but like someone said you had gay sex. If you had it again, if its just for relief between relationships with women, it doesn't mean your gay, but that you have sexual needs that need to be met. If the man on man sex continues but you are still attracted to women you could turn into a bisexual. You get the best of both worlds, you get to have the relationships you want with women, and can easily get sexual satisfaction from another dude during the non relationship times.

Just spend some time by your self and get to know your self better

wow i did not expect that story to take that turn

Your not gay. Just think of it as haveing a "greek sexuality". Your striaght but you can find enjoyment in men.

you left out details... now did you suck him off? Did he suck you off? I mean was there assholes being fingered here or what? OR did he flat out flip you on your belly and phuck that ass? Was he hung like a donkey? I mean a little hand job ok forget about it... but did you go all out here or what?

If you were really in love with your girlfriend, then you wouldn't have gotten pleasurement from being with a man. So yes you are so gay, as soon as you did that, you became gay. Don't say you want to be with a woman and have kids but then be thinking about guys. Please don't lead the next woman your with on. If your gay, be proud. Figure out which team you are on dude. A lot of people get hurt by the same thing all the time.

You haven't gotten over your ex. Snap out of it! and I think you've answered it yourself right there: "the enjoyment is just physical, I am attracted to females and connect emotionally only w/ females." It could have been a female, just turns out that he's a guy and apparently gay.
I don't think you're gay though, it just so happens that he came when you needed someone. I say get over your ex and stop having sex with this guy! you might scar yourself further emotionally if you do. It nearly took me 1 and a half years to get over my ex. But hey, I made it. And so can you ^^

you start to act gayish when you're in a long-term relationship. you'll snap out of it. you probably just have'nt noticed.