Did i help my wife cheat

My wife and I recently had what was supposed to be a wife swap with her co worker and his wife. It was something she wanted to do and being a man of course I wanted to be with another woman once.

Anyway his wife was really hot and I was happy to fuck her and everything was fine. She blew me a few minutes and we basically had misionary for 5 minutes or so while my wife and this dude started. His wife didn't want me to cum and I understood. All great right.

Well after we were done my wife and this guy proceeded to have sex for two hours, I kid you not. She let him do everthing even anal, and she swallowed his cum. It was like she turned into a porn star for these two while I sat there like an idiot.

All the way home she thanked me and said how great it was and couldn't stop talking about the next time we all have fun.

Well sorry but I didn't have that much fun, in fact it seemed I was the only one who didn't. This guys fucked both for hours while I watched.

So did I just help my wife cheat? Do you think they have done this before. I feel like a idiot for not enjoying this more.

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  • e51pegasi

    Nope, you both got into a little extra marital fun. She enjoyed it and got a lot more of it than you did & now you are upset about that. Unlucky.

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    • Unwitting

      Except I got barely anything, two licks and 5 minutes from the woman, then she spent the rest of the time with them.

      It would be ok but my wife never does what she did with this man. I have never had sex with her like that. Like I said, she acted like a porn star who couldn't get enough.

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      • e51pegasi

        And neither did you.

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        • Unwitting

          What do you mean, neither did I what?

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          • e51pegasi

            Get enough.

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            • Unwitting

              Oh, well not really a good comparison is it. Hours to minutes.

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  • nikkiclaire

    It's not cheating if you agreed to it. Maybe this guy made your wife feel special. In this situation there is always someone who feels left out. Sorry.

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  • Nickvey

    here is the real deal, she has been fucking the woman and the man behind your back for over 6 months. You are the johnny cum lately in this game. they were getting bored with her and the sex was dropping off. she didnt like that at all so she invited you in on the threesum to improve her odds of keeping the sessions alive. you did the right thing by having some sex with the hottie wife because , you would have gotten nothing otherwise and your wife would have just continued with the threesum until it faded away. so my answer is no , you did not allow your wife to cheat , she was already cheating on you. she didnt invite you in for your pleasure , you got some action to benefit your wife. this is the real dynamic of wife swapping . it is not wife swapping at all, its husband swapping. now you know what really went down.

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    • nikkiclaire

      Maybe she just felt slutty and let go for the night. It doesn't mean she is a cheating ho who has been doing it for months behind his back. She sounds like a lot of fun tbh.

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      • EnglishLad

        This sounds plausible

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      • Nickvey

        Right............

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  • Lonelyandhorny47

    I think your feeling like less of a man cause you didn't last as long with his wife as he did with yours,and no its not cheating cause you both agreed

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  • Yikes12

    You wanted to do it too. You fucked the guy's wife. You are just feeling insecure your lady had a better time banging him than she does banging you. And honestly... that's probably not a good thing, since you two should be pretty well acquainted with each other's bodies and turn-ons. Your marriage needs work, or at least your sex life does, but she did not cheat anymore than you did.

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    • Unwitting

      Read my post where I said cheating may not have been the best turn of phrase.

      And of course I feel insecure. My wife enjoys sex with another man more than me. That is not going to make me miraculously better in bed.

      She lied. Period.

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      • Yikes12

        Lied about what, exactly? I must be missing something.

        Maybe she is having some kind of sexual crisis..?

        In any case, if you are not okay with it anymore and she is totally dismissive of that fact, the marriage is dead. Sorry. :(

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        • Unwitting

          I think she lied by manipulating the entire event just to have sex with this guy and possibly turn me into some gay watcher guy or something.

          Yeah the marriage is probably fucked.

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  • Waste

    Someona has been having fun here for while and been missing it....and yes, she’s been cheating for a long time.

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    • Unwitting

      I am starting to think thats true cause every time I initiate sex she tells me to wait for the others. Wtf?

      I told her it isn't going to happen and she has kept me in the cold ever since.

      Good way to ruin your marriage. I don't know if it's been going on for a while but it seems she only wants to fuck this man and woman and I am some moron who is supposed to let her.

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      • nikkiclaire

        Maybe she wants you to be her cuckold and just let you watch. There is a slim chance she wants you to be with the man too, if she enjoys that.

        She sounds like a bitch tho and I am sorry this is happening to you. She hasn't gone into this with your feelings in mind, for sure. Selfish.

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        • Unwitting

          I have no idea what you are on about. I'm not gay, I am a married man.

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  • Pumpurrnickel

    You all agreed to it. Just because you didn't enjoy it as much, doesn't mean it's suddenly cheating.

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    • Unwitting

      Maybe cheating isn't the right word, but I feel like she basically sold me on a package deal when really it was just about her getting fucked by him. She won't stop talking about it.

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  • TNXK

    You didnt get to cum?
    And he fucked both at the same time?

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