Did i fuck up this facebook message to this girl i really like deeply?

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Since my sophomore year in college, I've liked this chick, and I have her in one of my classes, and I felt she was a 10 to me, I really like her a lot, but I am always nervous as fuck around her, and its not like I don't know how to please a women, because I've been with a good amount, but when it comes to conversing with them, and striking up a conversation with girls that i feel are out of my league which I feel I'm a little above average, but feel as though I can't play the game with getting women to follow through with getting intimate with me. Overall, I can see to an extent that women have a interest in me but never follow through when I make initiative in them, I come off as the pursuer which is obvious that women want what they can't have. I come off as easy to get. which personally I hate the dating game. was never good at it. I feel this girl could be a girl i would love to marry one day or be in a really long term relationship with, but i feel since she comes off as the the type of girl she might have a boyfriend or if not she's too intimidated by guys to fuck with her. i don't know, but "MY QUESTION TO YOU GIRLS IS DID I FUCK UP WITH THIS FACEBOOK MESSSAGE TO HER" FOR YOUR INFORMATION she's in my current college class. Keep in mind she always sits in the front row so it comes off to me like it's impossible to talk to her before, during, let alone after class. So, i can't figure out a way to fuck with her to get her to get a glimpse of me as a spark of curiosity in her to give me a shot!

Heyy madeleine, how are you? Hopefully the rain hasn't been weighing you down. I've been interested in you for a while now, sort of shy but fuck it, your my type & I'm not gonna lie I really like you a lot and I don't know if I'm your type but if so, I would really like to get to know you better. I think we might have chemistry, think we have a good amount in common. fuck with me; I love blondes....... especially you, you're a mystery to me ;)

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  • reginaFalangi
    8 years ago

    The last part is....crass.

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  • PT121
    8 years ago

    it was sweet until you said "fuck with me; I love blondes....... especially you, you're a mystery to me ;)"

    it sounded kinda..idk, sexual, and demanding, like you just want her for sex.

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  • mystery7
    8 years ago

    the message was ok up until you said "fuck with me; I love blondes....... especially you"

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    • dillon10124
      8 years ago

      i tried to put my twist on it, was trying to play it cool i dont know, guess it was kinda stupid. :/ great!

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  • Crow
    8 years ago

    Man the fuck up and confess to a girl's face next time. Oh - and drop the last line about loving blondes. It makes you sound like a shitty pickup artist.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      8 years ago

      w/e

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  • dillon10124
    8 years ago

    FUUCCCCKKKKKKKKKKKK!!!!! oh well theirs other fish in the sea i guess :/

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    • dillon10124
      8 years ago

      Wish I had a time machine its ironic because i just finished the movie project almanac lol fml ugh - oh well

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  • insanebotv21
    8 years ago

    Oh, for the love of god! You should have put the comment itself in all caps! It'd really help here.

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  • Caps90
    8 years ago

    I would try and at least you tried to delete it and try again. If you can't then attempt damage control.... For future reference when you are sending a message like that to anyone always have someone you trust with you to read it over and correct any thing that might be miss communicated.

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  • Caps90
    8 years ago

    She might be a little confused delete it ASAP and try again. Don't say fuck, and you like blonds. You liking blonds doesn't exactly communicate how you have a lot in common. If I were her Id straight up ignore you because I would think that all you want is a good fuck.

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    • dillon10124
      8 years ago

      doubt i can delete the message on Facebook or i would.

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  • dillon10124
    8 years ago

    great! so i take it i fucked up & assume next class with her is probably gonna be awkward? fml :/

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    • Lord_Flatulitis
      8 years ago

      Yup, it's probably going to be awkward as hell, way to advertise on her Facebook also.

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    • MrExaybachay
      8 years ago

      Man , if being true and direct ,using words ,matters to you..then you did a good thing. You got it out.
      The way she will give/or not, an answer, is something different. Propably you won't/didn't get a response.
      Is she still the 10/10 you thought off?
      A good 10 , I guess... is a person which you can actually communicate.. (and if you match) you get to communicate without fear of being humiliated. But communicating with an urge to understand each other.
      If you wanted just to fuck i guess you had more chances telling her without hiding behind a keyboard. gl& hf

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  • Dazed_dreamer
    8 years ago

    Thats funny, especially the last part. Shouldve kept it simple :)

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  • RoseIsabella
    8 years ago

    Chill out dude. That's a not an über bad message, it probably wouldn't turn me on if some guy sent that kinda message to me. Maybe she's not into you, so what... get over it. Life is short!

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    • dillon10124
      8 years ago

      so your saying it didn't spark her curiosity or got her attention, I fucked up? or.........?

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      • dillon10124
        8 years ago

        or it wasn't that bad of a message?

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        • RoseIsabella
          8 years ago

          All of the above. Maybe you're just not her type, she's not interested or she's got someone else she's crushing hard on herself? It doesn't sound like that big of a deal. If I were you I'd try not to dwell on it too much.

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          • reginaFalangi
            8 years ago

            I wouldn't be attracted by the bad spelling "your my type".

            Also, I've never read something as straight forward as "fuck with me". But honesty is always the way to go.

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            • RoseIsabella
              8 years ago

              To be completely honest, although honesty is refreshing I do find any overly assertive pursuit of me to be a real turn off.

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